TheRealCallie
Princess Pink Love
MissLonely79 said:How bad are they? If she ever released them, it would be absolutely mortifying. It's a lot of stuff about my family and friends (more like acquaintances/friends) basically. I vent a lot about them to her. However, will it be the death of me? No. So that's why I am not worried too much about that. What I am worried about right now is much more serious. I mean, I don't want to bore anyone with the details, but if you want to know, I have no problem telling. The point is, she actually really crossed the line with this most recent incident and until I figure out exactly what I am going to do, I just shut my phone down. She might still have control over me but in a way she doesn't because now she can't call me multiple times a day with her bizarre stories and fake crisis and then pry into my life and try to run it and control it from there. The most recent incident, the reason I just shut my phone down, will fuel her like, I can't find the right comparison; like an evil Disney villain, where they go from being bad to worse. Picture Jafar from Aladdin at the end of the movie when he wants all the power and turns into that monster......that is my friend. If I don't shut her down right now, she will take this and run with this. She has been licking her chops since she met me to get something like this on me and I was very careful not to let her, until now. I knew one day it was going to happen and it did. I am ashamed of myself. I don't even want to think about it.
You don't have to tell if you don't want to, but it might help to get a different perspective on it. If you don't want to air it on open forum, I'd be glad to listen in PM. It's entirely up to you, though.