Fvantom
Well-known member
its no doubt that almost everybody deals with loneliness at some point in their lives. Some of us however, like those of us on this site, have it worse than many others. You may be thinking to yourself "Im a loser" or "Im meant to be lonely" well its not true, I know why were in so much pain, its because we have the strength to endure it.
Every time we feel lonely, whether we know it or not, we are being given a choice, the choice to tough it out in hope of a better future, or the choice to stop caring, kill off your emotions, so you dont feel the pain...or anything for that matter. Every day, I have to see people talking about how much the love their friends, or how great of a time theyre having...remnants of a life that Ive lost, but I have to let it hurt me because if I let my emotions whither and die, even if I do end up having the life I want, I wont be able to enjoy it at all.
If we were weak, we would take the second option, your feelings would go numb, every emotion would be dull, sure you may not feel the pain anymore, but its a deal with the devil, and you lose all your good feelings too. Just remember why were here, because we were strong enough to endure the pain, in hope that things get better.
Every time we feel lonely, whether we know it or not, we are being given a choice, the choice to tough it out in hope of a better future, or the choice to stop caring, kill off your emotions, so you dont feel the pain...or anything for that matter. Every day, I have to see people talking about how much the love their friends, or how great of a time theyre having...remnants of a life that Ive lost, but I have to let it hurt me because if I let my emotions whither and die, even if I do end up having the life I want, I wont be able to enjoy it at all.
If we were weak, we would take the second option, your feelings would go numb, every emotion would be dull, sure you may not feel the pain anymore, but its a deal with the devil, and you lose all your good feelings too. Just remember why were here, because we were strong enough to endure the pain, in hope that things get better.