Pedophilia and Anxiety

[Masson]

I don't know whos the bigger retard/idiot here , I never said raping children is good , I just said its THEIR CHOICE if they want to start earlier of age (14-17).
Again I did not say that because it is practiced in other cultures is good for anybody's health or mind , I just said its how its done in them.
Stop being a ******* moron and read ,think and then say something before insulting someone for no reason. I thought its something that as a human you should know and not be thought by somebody over the internet.
I didn't say all scientists suck and therefore should be ingnored , I just said that not everything they say is right. I saw plenty of "scientists" saying things that even a 6 year old could say its moronic so don't come here saying PhD's , a piece of paper doesen't guarantee honeysuckle.
You just saw what I wrote and atuomaticly made it sound 10 times worse in your head , don't come here pulling this kind of honeysuckle , maybe you don't agree with what I said , that doesen't mean what I said is wrong. Just because I didn't litter it in glitter and make it sound like a walk on a rainbow it doesen't mean its bad.
I don't care about what you wrote nor do I care about what you will say because you already proved to me that its pointless to talk to a log like you so please shut up and keep that kind of thoughts to yourself and that tiny world you live in.

 

[Poguesy]

*removed*

Lol

 

[SophiaGrace]

I don't know whos the bigger retard/idiot here

Clearly....it's you.

 

[Masson]

Thank you for reading the first 9 words , now read everything and then comment.

 

[Sci-Fi]

Name calling and insulting other members is not allowed here, everyone who has posted in this thread should know that.

People are overreacting to others statements probably due to the topic of the thread and not the best phrasing.

 

[Poguesy]

It's about time this forum heated up

 

[Masson]

Then they should tell me that what I said sounds wrong to them in a nice way and I will glady edit everything. I'm not the one at fault here.

 

[Sci-Fi]

It's your phrasing and using statements like; "rules are made to be broken" and the old term "old enough to bleed old enough for me".

This is a very touchy topic, and up until the last few pages have been a very civil discussion with the OP. This isn't a topic to discuss the appropriate age kids should be having sex at. This is about the OP dealing with his situation and anxieties.

If no one has anything constructive or helpful to say then just don't say it. Let's keep this on topic. If anyone needs clarification or a reminder then just click on the first page and the OP's update here.

This isn't a topic for people to argue in. You want to argue with each other take it to PM's.

 

[Poguesy]

 

[Sci-Fi]

I don't see how that is helpful to the OP. Disturbing though.

 

[Poguesy]

I don't see how that is helpful to the OP. Disturbing though.

Been highlighted recently so thought i might as well add it to the thread.

Everyone else seems to be banging on about the age of consent.

 

[clean]

Wow, this thread needs to be pushed back from something potentially damaging to something constructive. We have somebody here who is dealing with an enormous amount of guilt and shame because he's disturbed by the content of his own mind. With support, he is taking the steps he needs to be able to live a safe and normal life. Anybody who has spent much time in addiction medicine will tell you that shame is far more likely to push an addict toward giving up hope. This is an important thread, not just for the OP, but for other people like him who will inevitably come here seeking answers.

OP, only you can understand what it has really taken to stay clean for 104 days - don't let anybody take that accomplishment away from you. But you've definitely got some tough battles ahead, and it's very important that you continue down that path of success. Finding solid support is essential, particularly supportive people who are well equipped to deal with your situation. I strongly suggest that you seek professional guidance. Find an addiction treatment center - preferably one that treats sexual addictions, but it doesn't need to be - and ask to speak with a specialist. They will be understanding of the issues you face, and will at least be able to point you in the right direction.

There is no magic cure, but there are treatments that can help. Cognitive-behavioral therapy in particular is surprisingly effective at dealing with these kinds of problems. It is designed to give you the tools you need keep your mind on the right track, and sometimes avoid getting into those mental fits entirely. You can't change the past, so the best thing you can do is focus on the future and what you can do to break that cycle once and for all.

 

[SophiaGrace]

Doesn't suprise me.

Incest seems to be very very common fantasy. Too common.

You know..."Daddy" play

ugh -_-

 

[Badjedidude]

I don't know whos the bigger retard/idiot here , I never said raping children is good , I just said its THEIR CHOICE if they want to start earlier of age (14-17).
Again I did not say that because it is practiced in other cultures is good for anybody's health or mind , I just said its how its done in them.
Stop being a ******* moron and read ,think and then say something before insulting someone for no reason. I thought its something that as a human you should know and not be thought by somebody over the internet.
I didn't say all scientists suck and therefore should be ingnored , I just said that not everything they say is right. I saw plenty of "scientists" saying things that even a 6 year old could say its moronic so don't come here saying PhD's , a piece of paper doesen't guarantee honeysuckle.
You just saw what I wrote and atuomaticly made it sound 10 times worse in your head , don't come here pulling this kind of honeysuckle , maybe you don't agree with what I said , that doesen't mean what I said is wrong. Just because I didn't litter it in glitter and make it sound like a walk on a rainbow it doesen't mean its bad.
I don't care about what you wrote nor do I care about what you will say because you already proved to me that its pointless to talk to a log like you so please shut up and keep that kind of thoughts to yourself and that tiny world you live in.

I think you're trying to dissemble.

You made yourself quite clear with the "old enough to bleed, old enough to breed" statement, as well as your snarky little comment on how "rules are made to be broken."

Honestly, you say something like that and then expect a moderate response based on a person reading between the lines of the extreme attitude you displayed when you posted?

Sure, buddy. Whatever floats your lopsided boat.

I think the point here is that YOU need to stop and think before you type something. Because obviously you're incapable of getting your point across without having someone around to rustle your jimmies to get you to focus enough to do so. There is a clear disconnect in attitude between your earlier post and this second one where you're trying to defend yourself.

Next time, I suggest you just take a little more time and think out your posts' phrasings a bit better so as to avoid the sort of response you provoked.

Honestly... "Rules are made to be broken"....

Did you really expect a different reply, with that kind of ignorant, glib attitude to the subject we're discussing?

Have some class, man.

You just saw what I wrote and atuomaticly made it sound 10 times worse in your head

No, because what you said was bad enough without my having to augment it at all.

I just said its THEIR CHOICE if they want to start earlier of age (14-17).

AGAIN, I will explain (patiently) to you that children are not capable of logical judgement skills, as their brains are not physically developed to the point where they can decide these issues for themselves. Not even in those 14 yr-olds who are more advanced physically than their peers.

 

[Doubt The Rabbit]

^^^What Steve said. Except the part about rustling jimmies. What the hell does that even mean?

 

[Badjedidude]

^^^This.

 

[Doubt The Rabbit]

LOL.
I feel bad this thread got derailed to gorilla jimmies!

 

[Masson]

Fine I'l apologize , I don't want this thread to go in a totally different direction just because we don't agree. Lets agree to disagree.
Also I didn't know you take things so serious , I come from forums where people talk like this all the time and nobody takes it so serious. ( I'm not trying to offend you or anything , just saying ).

 

[LeaningIntoTheMuse]

Fine I'l apologize , I don't want this thread to go in a totally different direction just because we don't agree. Lets agree to disagree.
Also I didn't know you take things so serious , I come from forums where people talk like this all the time and nobody takes it so serious. ( I'm not trying to offend you or anything , just saying ).

Okay, you have now learned the reality of A Lonely Life...everyone is usually ******* serious here.

But I was also shocked by what you wrote, and I'm not the most PC person in the world.

Let's get this back on topic. The OP is struggling to free himself from his pedophilia addiction. Let's not say that something that is ILLEGAL and HARMFUL is actually not illegal and harmful, mmm'kay? That doesn't benefit anyone, especially the OP.

 

[Masson]

Please show me where did I wrote that someting illegal and harmful is not illegal and harmful and I will edit all my posts here.