well, yep, unfortunatley when you take a peak at some of the psych surveys out there you will notice the correlation between physical characteristics and career advancement/success and it would be ignorant to say that an individuals
perceived attractiveness has no effect on
some people and
some events. Sure, maybe the taller guy with the strong jaw might get the job over the squat balding man if they are perfectly equal on all other attributes, but when would something like that happen? In some sort of psychological vacuum maybe? And if the less qualified person were to be selected because he/she has deep blue eyes you can lose yourself in then the company wont survive very long eh?
Attractiveness is a shallow veil that can cover deficiencies in personality and character, but not for very long and eventually the illusion is shattered if one has any depth. Looks fade for
everyone, they are transient. Some people get addicted to physical attractiveness for it is a powerful aphrodisiac based on powerful biological instinct. The 'rip-off' is that the media machine keeps defining what is the ideal physical image and continues to flood the public consciousness, keeping the illusion alive and strong. The youth-obsessed culture has terrible side effects. It is sad, but all an illusion nonetheless.
Its pretty shitty, I agree.
You say that people who have known you have said that you are beautiful on the inside. That is to be cherished more than you know. If your heart and character are strong then you will run the distance in better stead then a pretty person who loses their looks later in life and is confronted with themselves only to realise (if they realise) that now they have to actually begin the real work of 'building character'.
Okay, I was once (when I was your age), considered pretty spunky..er..with all modesty hopefully
I once discovered (accidently) that this girl that I thought liked me, actually thought I was UGLY.. on the INSIDE. Now, there were plenty of girls that didn't think I was attractive on the outside, but guess which memory sticks with me now?
Attraciveness is overrated. We
all end up ugly in the end. Some people just discover this later than others, or never at all.