worldofadreamer
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Hey everyone I haven't poseted in a long while but today I'm here and so much has happened and I feel like I need to post it on here.
UUUm I don't usually let people in not in real life...but theres this guy that I went to college with nearly 3 years ago..he was my friend..lets call him N. I dated his best friend in college lets call him M.
Me and M were never serious i was 17 and had never had a bf...it was more like holding hands and learning to kiss. I didn't trust anyone even back then so I never let him in. He asked me to marry him and I said I was too young (he needed to get married to stay in the country) neway this was 5 years ago he married someone else. Recently we've got back in touch and everyday I think did I let the most the best thing that could have happened to me go.
Now M & N don' speak anymore. M thinks N is a good for nothing person who takes advantage of others. Neway me and N have bee friends ona dn off and hes always let me down..but he went away for about a year and when hecame back he said he had to tell me something. He had to tell me that he'd always liked me etc. The truth is i liked him fromt he moment I saw him... n the reason I was always ther for him as a friend was because deep down I loved him. He was the one that mattered..even in college days..probably why I never took M's proposal seriously.
Neway me and N start talkignand arrange to meet up..but he invites another one of our friends not thinking!! We talk and kiss when the other firend is not looking. We then talk through texts and realsie that hes going to India for 2 months because his grandad is ill in a weeks time. He says we should give 'us' a chance but not tell anyone yet.
He goes to india..he texts a few times and everything is finr. Untill new years eve when he stops texting until 3 weeks later and says he might be getting engaged and hes got a week to think about it n he'll let me no. I tell him to do whats best for him adn his family (indian families liek to arrange there childrend marraiages). Neway he got back from india on friday..i text and got no reponse. I then wrote him an emai saying how i felt about him and got no reponse. I rang countless times and got no answer.
Now while he was india..i told out other friends about us (well there more his friends than mine) and they all told me to be careful and not get involved.
Today he texts and says that hes not engaged but its in the process. hes going to talk to this girl for 2 months and then their going to get engaged. He says hes sorry and he didnt mean to hurt me. I reply saying that even his friends warned me but I defended him, he doesnt reply, so i send another text saying If he really didnt mean to hurt me then tell his parents that he doesnt want to get engaged and prove how much i mean to him'...i still get no reply..so i send another text sying 'u cant, can u! so jus leave me alone n let me forget that u ever mattered to me!. After a few hours with no reply I text again saying "u no wot the bad thing is depsite it all i want it to go back to how it was before u went to india..u calling me ur pwincess and thinking that were going to be together properly..dont u?". still no reply
Does he have a right to be angry that I told his friends about us?
Do I have a right to angry its not like we actually were in a proper realtionship? it'd only jus started.
Is it wrong of me to still love him?
oh the reason for mentioning M in all of this is because the other night i was drunk and i offered to go to bed with him..jus to stop the pain..he didnt take advantage but I'm scared of wot I might do. I think alot of it is because I miss those days and N and M are the only people who are still around..n i feel awful.
sorry i' rambling..i really a..but i want to scream..everyone leaves me!!! n everyone sees my desparate eyes jus loking for love in all the wrong places. I don;t no how much more I can take .
UUUm I don't usually let people in not in real life...but theres this guy that I went to college with nearly 3 years ago..he was my friend..lets call him N. I dated his best friend in college lets call him M.
Me and M were never serious i was 17 and had never had a bf...it was more like holding hands and learning to kiss. I didn't trust anyone even back then so I never let him in. He asked me to marry him and I said I was too young (he needed to get married to stay in the country) neway this was 5 years ago he married someone else. Recently we've got back in touch and everyday I think did I let the most the best thing that could have happened to me go.
Now M & N don' speak anymore. M thinks N is a good for nothing person who takes advantage of others. Neway me and N have bee friends ona dn off and hes always let me down..but he went away for about a year and when hecame back he said he had to tell me something. He had to tell me that he'd always liked me etc. The truth is i liked him fromt he moment I saw him... n the reason I was always ther for him as a friend was because deep down I loved him. He was the one that mattered..even in college days..probably why I never took M's proposal seriously.
Neway me and N start talkignand arrange to meet up..but he invites another one of our friends not thinking!! We talk and kiss when the other firend is not looking. We then talk through texts and realsie that hes going to India for 2 months because his grandad is ill in a weeks time. He says we should give 'us' a chance but not tell anyone yet.
He goes to india..he texts a few times and everything is finr. Untill new years eve when he stops texting until 3 weeks later and says he might be getting engaged and hes got a week to think about it n he'll let me no. I tell him to do whats best for him adn his family (indian families liek to arrange there childrend marraiages). Neway he got back from india on friday..i text and got no reponse. I then wrote him an emai saying how i felt about him and got no reponse. I rang countless times and got no answer.
Now while he was india..i told out other friends about us (well there more his friends than mine) and they all told me to be careful and not get involved.
Today he texts and says that hes not engaged but its in the process. hes going to talk to this girl for 2 months and then their going to get engaged. He says hes sorry and he didnt mean to hurt me. I reply saying that even his friends warned me but I defended him, he doesnt reply, so i send another text saying If he really didnt mean to hurt me then tell his parents that he doesnt want to get engaged and prove how much i mean to him'...i still get no reply..so i send another text sying 'u cant, can u! so jus leave me alone n let me forget that u ever mattered to me!. After a few hours with no reply I text again saying "u no wot the bad thing is depsite it all i want it to go back to how it was before u went to india..u calling me ur pwincess and thinking that were going to be together properly..dont u?". still no reply
Does he have a right to be angry that I told his friends about us?
Do I have a right to angry its not like we actually were in a proper realtionship? it'd only jus started.
Is it wrong of me to still love him?
oh the reason for mentioning M in all of this is because the other night i was drunk and i offered to go to bed with him..jus to stop the pain..he didnt take advantage but I'm scared of wot I might do. I think alot of it is because I miss those days and N and M are the only people who are still around..n i feel awful.
sorry i' rambling..i really a..but i want to scream..everyone leaves me!!! n everyone sees my desparate eyes jus loking for love in all the wrong places. I don;t no how much more I can take .