hi, guys/itgirls:
I have read many threads on this forum and definitely can empathize with how a lot of you feel. I also notice that the majority of you are still young (16~28). Please do not despair; yes, you may have been rejected/betrayed/lost your family. However, you still have your most valuable treasure - being young.
As long as you have time on your side, things can always change if you put in the effort. Tides/society norms may be against you, but nothing is unfixable with time and determination.
The people whom I feel really have the worst end of the deal are being old and lonely with no one to turn to. There is very little prospect of turning things around. Loneliness can be eternal and society is particularly cruel to them. I am 31 and what I fear the most is not being single/relationshipless now. My greatest fear is staying in the same situation when I hit my mid~late 30s which isn't that far away.
Anyway, to all young people, please keep your heads up and don't despair and waste your biggest asset - youth.
I have read many threads on this forum and definitely can empathize with how a lot of you feel. I also notice that the majority of you are still young (16~28). Please do not despair; yes, you may have been rejected/betrayed/lost your family. However, you still have your most valuable treasure - being young.
As long as you have time on your side, things can always change if you put in the effort. Tides/society norms may be against you, but nothing is unfixable with time and determination.
The people whom I feel really have the worst end of the deal are being old and lonely with no one to turn to. There is very little prospect of turning things around. Loneliness can be eternal and society is particularly cruel to them. I am 31 and what I fear the most is not being single/relationshipless now. My greatest fear is staying in the same situation when I hit my mid~late 30s which isn't that far away.
Anyway, to all young people, please keep your heads up and don't despair and waste your biggest asset - youth.