I've been asked WHY I'm single/not married, which is extremely annoying for me. I usually just shrug or say it's because I'm not interested in dating. What I really want to say is: because I don't date just any man/woman who happens to be attracted to me and who I can MERELY co-exist with for five hours. I want a real relationship, with someone I share a real connection with and certain essential things in common with. I either have someone in my life like that, or I don't. Right now I don't. That's all there is to it. Dating is not a duty or a past time for me.
But out of the people who have asked me why, none of them had the right to know all of that. It's a very intrusive question, in my opinion.
Off-topic: Like, "Why won't you have sex with me?"
Um... for all you know, I might have a vaginal infection, some sexual abuse trauma to work through, be demisexual... common sense should tell you there can be millions of highly personal answers to that question. Just accept that I won't do it.