You work in a fish and chip shop? send me a bag of chips and a battered sausage, our supermarket shelves are empty and the missus is away, I ain't bloody eaten in days!I've fried bigger fish before.
You work in a fish and chip shop? send me a bag of chips and a battered sausage, our supermarket shelves are empty and the missus is away, I ain't bloody eaten in days!I've fried bigger fish before.
You work in a fish and chip shop? send me a bag of chips and a battered sausage, our supermarket shelves are empty and the missus is away, I ain't bloody eaten in days!
Didn't fancy killing that diseased pigeon you spoke about then?You work in a fish and chip shop? send me a bag of chips and a battered sausage, our supermarket shelves are empty and the missus is away, I ain't bloody eaten in days!
Who gives the women those excuses? Their friends/sisters/mothers?Okay men! Question from Netflix Academy…
Why is it when men cheat they are generally considered selfish monsters but when women cheat we are given so much excuses like “she had low self-esteem” or “her partner was controlling and she needed an outlet”? Any ideas, is it due to a history of oppression ?
I feel like women get the benefit of the doubt, from society as a whole, also it's always okay to be much harsher with men, a lot of guys have called this out, like the fact that their ex girlfriends and bash them to high heavens say whatever they like but if the reverse happened everyone would be shocked and appalled lol.Who gives the women those excuses? Their friends/sisters/mothers?
TBH, I have always thought it to be much worse if a female cheats than a male.
Yes, it's a product of the old fashioned values I grew up with.
But there is some logic to it.
Males simply scr*w around for fun/something different/not "getting enough" (or any) at home. We can easily do this without making any emotional connection. And the husbands still come home, pay the bills, take the kids to their sports games, etc...
Whereas females almost always do this with emotional connection.
Not to mention the whole pregnancy thing.
Here in the US there are many states that will NOT alleviate child support for a divorced husband even if a DNA test proves the wife had the child with another man while she was married. If he signed the birth certificate, he HAS to pay. So there are much more dire consequences to a female cheating.
Off topic but interesting:
Regarding the "not getting any at home" thing, many of my monger friends first went to escorts & massage girls because when their wives hit a certain age (around menopause) they decided they did not want to have sex anymore. Still wanted to be married, but no sex. And believe it or not these guys SNEAK AROUND! They make excuses like playing golf, business meeting, going to Home Depot. And they use burner cell phones so the wife does not find out. To me that is crazy. If a wife decides "no more sex", to me that's basically like giving the guy a direct order to fool around. But I guess they see it very differently.
Nah, she can kiss who she wants, what kind of person still uses Facebook ffs?!Okay men… i’ve been nice to you, I've given you a break, I’ve done everything you’ve asked of me, now its my turn to put my hand out, my turn to dial up the heat! My turn to ask a question….
Please this is not for the faint hearted dont say I didnt warn you…
You have a girlfriend, its going well but there is one issue, you notice that she never wants to kiss you, ever…. Shes not affectionate at all its not cold but she plays it off as being shy but on her facebook sits a few hundred pictures of her kissing her ex that she plans to delete as soo as possible… Would this be a deal breaker? Would you wonder… why me? Would this keep you up at night?
How long have they been dating?Okay men… i’ve been nice to you, I've given you a break, I’ve done everything you’ve asked of me, now its my turn to put my hand out, my turn to dial up the heat! My turn to ask a question….
Please this is not for the faint hearted dont say I didnt warn you…
You have a girlfriend, its going well but there is one issue, you notice that she never wants to kiss you, ever…. Shes not affectionate at all its not cold but she plays it off as being shy but on her facebook sits a few hundred pictures of her kissing her ex that she plans to delete as soo as possible… Would this be a deal breaker? Would you wonder… why me? Would this keep you up at night?
14 years and the fellas probably a cuckoldHow long have they been dating?
I was gonna say something else but i saw all the I wouldnt date a girl that uses that anywayNah, she can kiss who she wants, what kind of person still uses Facebook ffs?!
Good question its only been 8 monthsHow long have they been dating?
Ska you know you think of everything, so she is planning to delete it but deep down she loves that she is probably making you jealous just a mini toxic trait of hers that she’d never admit.Does she really plan to delete them, or is she just saying it?
Is she actually cheating, or was this a past relationship?
Maybe it really is that the old relationship was a long one, and it took a while for her to open up and get to that point of comfort with kissing.
Nevertheless, if I was dating a woman, I wouldn't really enjoy seeing pictures of her kissing another man. It would feel both hurtful and disrespectful, like I'm not good enough or something.
Ska you know you think of everything, so she is planning to delete it but deep down she loves that she is probably making you jealous just a mini toxic trait of hers that she’d never admit.
Was a past and very over relationship she is promising you love and loyalty.
I don't know if it's a deal breaker but it is a serious red flag.Okay men… i’ve been nice to you, I've given you a break, I’ve done everything you’ve asked of me, now its my turn to put my hand out, my turn to dial up the heat! My turn to ask a question….
Please this is not for the faint hearted dont say I didnt warn you…
You have a girlfriend, its going well but there is one issue, you notice that she never wants to kiss you, ever…. Shes not affectionate at all its not cold but she plays it off as being shy but on her facebook sits a few hundred pictures of her kissing her ex that she plans to delete as soon as possible… Would this be a deal breaker? Would you wonder… why me? Would this keep you up at night?
Ska buddy, kick her sorry arse out right now!, there's only toxic no 'mini' it's only going to get worse not better.Well, as long as it's a "very over" relationship, I can work with that.
If everything else is going well, maybe the mini toxic trait will go away in time.
I don't mean the whole "disrespectful" bit as like "grr rr respect your man" macho thing, just more like if there's going to be a relationship it has to be mutually respectful.
I'm fine with waiting out the time until she's comfortable kissing, though.
Them being uncomfortable would be a turn-off for me as well, so I can wait.
Ska buddy, kick her sorry arse out right now!, there's only toxic no 'mini' it's only going to get worse not better.
Skedaddle! Vamoose! Beat your feet!
You are a far more cultured gentleman than I'll ever be.
Get thee to a nunnery, brazen hussy!No that's more like, "I say, get thee hence, post-haste!"
Noo she leaves love and care to let down her walls and kiss her prince and drop her toxic ways that was aging her closed off heartSka buddy, kick her sorry arse out right now!, there's only toxic no 'mini' it's only going to get worse not better.
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