Recent content by Code S.O.L

For the sake of keeping the friendships I have, I try and hold it all in as best as I can. I can't vent the same way I used to, as my Dad has my facebook under constant surveillance, and won't hesitate to ring me personally to tell me to 'shut up and pull my ******* head in.' Ultimately, he's...

I want to say yes, but....... no. I can't say that I do. But I want to say yes because the two times I have been kissed, I didn't enjoy it. Not one bit.

Yeah, I've kinda been in this situation before. I ran into a highschool aqquaintance about a year back who spotted me out in the crowd. I stopped to have a coffee with her, we swapped numbers, facebook details, etc, etc, and I thought nothing of it. So a few days later, she arranges for me to...

You're better off seeking out the therapist. It'll weigh less on your guilt that way.

Unless you're willing to take a few life changing steps, well..................yeah.

There are some exceptions to the rule, but generally, no. If you plan on meeting girls anywhere, you need to be extroverted-even alittle. It's an absolute must for a guy. A girl can get away with being introverted, since traditionally it's the guys who are making the required moves anyways. We...

Walked away from the train station sometime ago. I mean, you know it's bad when your own mother says you've got no chance in hell at finding someone. And besides, having a girlfriend would most likely mean that I'd have to trade in my relatively carefree life. And I don't think I'm willing to...

The general idea is this: Even amongst the most love-smitten couples, there are gonna be those few things they absolutely hate about each other. Those small unfavourable traits gradually intensify on the mind the closer they get to each other. Couples play it safe by bitching about those said...

One man's trash is another's treasure. I have no doubt that somepeople think I'm living the life, coasting along carefree and easy playing video games. I'm not gonna lie. It is an easy life. But there's also alot of persecution that comes with it. Society would deem me as worthless for...

So tonight on facebook, I saw an ultrasound of my best friend's girl's baby. I should be happy for them. And don't get me wrong, I am happy for them. But upon looking at that ultrasound, a thought occured to me. This is the same guy who was essentially my only friend in highschool-my only real...

Were you shaking a magic 8 ball? Srsly, not to sound like a jackass over here, but I genuinely believe you're about to shoot yourself in the foot by waiting for her. If the date went well, then for all intents and purposes, that should be the OK signal for you to make the next contact...

It's not so much a case of if, as I've made a conscious decision to avoid relationships altogether. After having observed the ugly side of countless relationships, I've come to the conclusion that I won't be able to handle the direct conflicts that will inevitably occur in a partnership. And so...

You're in your mid-late 30's(or possibly early 40's), right? I'm beginning to suspect that I'm going to become you when I reach that age. Infact, I've been mentally preparing myself for this for a while now.

I've no doubt that alot of people here can tell you what love feels like. But outside science of bodily chemical reactions, nobody can tell you what it actually is. I'd say that in order to grasp love's 'concept', then you'd have to be willing to lose yourself in the lofty ideals and emotions...

Whilst reading a thread on one of many forums I frequent, someone made a very interesting analogy on why women choose to date losers/jerks/your choice of derogative choice of stereotype. So it begs the question. What level pokemanz are we in relation to this analogy?