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Hi Charlie Welcome. To make something lasting we should have its end in our mind. even in a friend ship we should know where are friendship is going to. Even in this forum we should know what we are looking for. Does it make sense

Hi Roselin....Wellcome I think each of us should be measured by our response-ability. I think country-side people are more practical, healthy, beautiful and natural. I love country music specialty Irish style music which is inviting to both young and old. Which type of music U like Roselin, Do U...

Hi Josh, Welcome to the forum I just post this for Carl and I think it may be useful for U too. Please let me know! I think being involved in the process of self discovery and growth is the key to not being lonely. A kid may play for hours with his/her toys and yet will not feel lonely. When...

Hi Carl, Welcome to the forum I think being involved in the process of self discovery and growth is the key to not being lonely. A kid may play for hours with his/her toys and yet will not feel lonely. When we are fully engaged in our interactions we do not feel lonely, the problem start when...

Hi babyfoxhund Let us go one by one. U are a loser!I think being a loser is the sign of dependency. Our univers is totally UNCONDITIONAL and want us to be free and uncoditional too.I want to tell you the big words right here and dont want U to get confused. U will be clear as we move on in our...

ur sto Hi,...Welcome and thanks for sharing your story. The biggest lesson I learned in my life is , "we are going to loose whatever or whomever we think we cannot live without, and I strongly believe this as a law of nature. I think the nature wants us to be complete in ourselves . To be...

Hi kgu and welcome to the forum I think you yourself said the golden word "validation", I think we have to be approved by ourselves.By loving ourselves we communicate love and make others to love us too. Another point in effective communication we should be service-oriented and try to...

I want to add some clarification to my sayings: Our end vision and the resultant happiness should be that much clear to us that we already live with it. This will transform our behavior and brings new opportunities in our interactions!:D Good luck

Hi blueberry. Well come I think sometimes we are not fitting in what we are doing. I am qualified as a mechanical engineer , I studied engineering because my father wanted me to be an engineer,but latter I found that the work I am doing is not what I want, and I will not feel fulfilled and...

Hi , Welcom to the forum,(Although I am new myself). what do U mean by saying "it is hard to feel belonging somewhere"

Hi Maria, I think it is good that U are now in a country with more opportunities and higher standards of living. Although I accept that being away from family is hard. What do U think U are unique at?

Hi Eastern girl I think the good thing in this internet age is different people with different cultures are interacting. I have a question for you! do U think your not making relations is due to your cultural background or simply you have decided to know yourself better before entering into...

Hi How are U Please correct me if I am not right I have mostly found overweight people more frindly, tolerable and comunicateable which make them winners. Maybe it is beacause they satisfy their desires by their eating habits and therefore they are not needy in their relations.Can I ask the...

Hi SourGlow I have been myself very shy, and I have found that the only solution to end our shyness is develop mastery on our emotions. RELATIONSHIP IS NOT A SOLUTION FOR SHYNESS it will only develop dependency and may cover the problem to some extent. Our shyness is very much related to our...

Hi...I did write you yesterday but it seems it is not gone through so I am writing it again. Well.. We have to turn problems into opportunities. In any group activities the one with the end in mind will turn out to be the leader! .....We have to joyfully accept that every human being is a...