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As you get older, you realize that sex is not really the first thing you're looking for anymore ;-) If I had to go around dating again I would just be myself completely and make sure the other person is a good fit for me. I would actually be turned off if the other person just kept trying to...

Weed is truly a gift and linking it to poor behavior has given it a bad name and made it illegal in most places. Anybody can abuse food and gain weight fast. Anybody can spend too much money on anything and become financially unstable. Anybody can play video games all day, be unproductive or...

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That's the thing. Those that don't or haven't smoked seem to hate it. Those who smoked one time hate it. But those who use it 3 times a week or less properly are the ones that see the benefits. It's a natural stress & pain reliever - simple as that. I smoke in very small increments until I feel...

Please tell me you're not talking about Facebook. If you are I could go on for days about why you shouldn't base reality on what happens on a blogging website. Please reassure me that you're having trouble with life's good old social interactions with others - the ones that actually matter. If...

If you're in Southern California I can help you out big time. If you're not I can try to find people with connections where you're at. What state are you in? There's also a lot of government desk jobs in every major city. I can try to get you teamed up with the civilian contracting recruiters if...

This is so bad. My wife's learning disabled and hearing stories like this breaks my heart. The best thing you can do is understand that these people just flat out suck -not only because they're not doing what they're being paid to do- but also because they took on a responsibility they're now...

My MSN ID is [email protected] add me if you would like to chat. I won't be available this weekend though. I'll be hiking to a Casita without technology...

Woops... Anyway, I love to hike!!! Lots of mountains in Los Angeles! Anyone wanna go with me? Or if you don't, I can share some info with you so you can hit the trails on your own! Hiking alone is actually pretty awesome. I do meditation when I get to the highest points in the city I'm...

But in order for me to experience the life I want, I have to change a lot about myself, including learning how to develop (or change) my personality - the way I act and express myself in front of others. I know I *shouldn't* change my personality but maybe I can explain a little better... When...

He might want to try taking some of those testosterone reducing pills they have out there. I'm not sure of the names but a Doc would know. It will reduce the desire for sex which should get him focused on the other billions of things he can do with his life.

Interesting. I was thinking if I changed my personality it would be like, for example, learning to do something I don't know how to do, like when I learned mathematical skills that I had no idea how to deal with before. I don't feel like a fake now that I know them. I was thinking learning to...

Well I guess that's part of it. When I think of change, my personality and mentality come into the front of my thoughts. But if it's so uncomfortable, should I do it? Is there really a problem or is it all in my head? I guess I'm just presuming that we all came here to "A Lonely Life" to work on...

I can definitely relate to that. *But* that hasn't stopped me from doing what makes me happy, and that happens to be helping other people. The ratio of good experiences to bad experiences I've had with others when I'm being, what I call helpful, is still too great to have such a stopping impact...

I gave up on college. It didn't work for me. No matter how hard I tried. I couldn't find anything that really made sense for me. Now I'm happy and enjoying life instead of worrying about the future. I joined the Marines and went that route. Now that that's done for me I get a pension, like any...

I think the last sentence was the only part that literally didn't make sense, because of the adverb anecdotally contradicting with the whole belief statement he made there. Other than that though, it's his viewpoint so you can't successfully argue with someone about what they believe... well...

You can do it the old fashioned way... Get your own place, invite him over to it, and cook a totally delicious meal with dessert. OR You can be yourself, make your own way, be completely independent and do it that way. Contrary to what most people have said out loud, there are infinitely many...

I've been listening to some really awesome "talks" lately that have opened up my mind to the fact that I need to take ownership of my own problems and strive for change. But the question comes up and I wonder if anybody else finds it hard to change the way we are, even though we know that we...

I believe Karma is just a word -but- there is a certain power in our minds that controls what we do and in turn what happens to us. For example, if I'm only doing positive things, positivity will be at the frontmost part of my mind and I will certainly notice positive things above all other...

Even though I don't really know you, I can see the similarities of you and the old me. I feel like you have nobody who has shown you the confidence in yourself that you truly deserve. Instead, you are living your life in your head and it's repressing your true character by keeping you kind of...