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Hi! So I'm feeling a bit of emotions at the moment; new feelings I've never felt before, and would like some help in analyzing them. Background: I've been together with a girl for 1.5 years, we were each other's first real love and my first relationship at 23 years of age. She broke up with me...

I have this problem that I'm quite apathetic when I'm on my own. I usually sit by my computer, either wasting time or maybe doing something productive. But that's not the problem, it is that I don't want to do any other things. For example, finding and buying new clothes, furniture--cleaning...

Hey guys! I guess this a silly subject compared to most other posts here, but it's been making me feel depressed lately. So. I'm a pretty creative person, I've always had projects making computer software/games/etc. and I've always been pretty humble about it, I never "released" anything to...

Hi people! I have a problem, which is that I tend to avoid social gatherings like birthdays, parties, going out to clubs and bars. I even avoid the casual friday coffee at work! I feel this is a bit limiting. I never get psyched up about social gatherings, is this common? And why am I like this...

Howdy! :cool: My girlfriend of 4-5 months is clinically depressed; I think she's been on medication for a couple of years, and she meets with a caretaker at least once a week. She's a nice girl most of the time, but now and then she gets really low and hates herself; sometimes she even wants to...

Hello! So this is about taking your girl out to the clubs when you're not equipped with the highest social intelligence. My girl (of 1.5 months, also my first real relationship. I'm 22) and I went to a nightclub >two weeks after we met. We got pretty drunk, I was aware of my surroundings but she...

Hey! So I've stumbled upon a bit of a problem. A problem I never thought I'd have, really. Haha. Maybe it's not a problem, but what the hell. Well, I think it is, because it could ruin the best thing ever, and it's making me depressed. Ok, so I met a girl some time ago that I don't really fancy...

Hey there! I've got a problem; I sleep way too much. I get to bed at maybe 1 am, and set the alarm at 8 o' clock. That should be enough sleep, but I usually wake up, feel really tired and just don't care to get up. I want to go to school and do my work there, but I'm too lazy because I can just...

I'm trying to get on the chat, but it won't work. I can see nicknames in the list for a couple of seconds, but then I get disconnected :O After that I can't see them anymore, and it's not possible to sign in. Anyone know why? :/ Edit: seems to be working now, heh. Hm.

Ok, this is more about venting and remembering I actually feel like this than anything. Anyway, I've noticed a trend from my outings with (some/most) friends. I never feel like part of the gang, I never have anything to say, or I say stupid things to try to be funny (which is almost never fun...

I've got this weird problem; I think mirrors lie. When I look myself in a mirror or a window, I almost always look super-handsome. To the point where I actually admire how I look. But in most photographs and films I look like utter/otter honeysuckle. Some pics are good though. It's a really big...

Hey all! This is my second post, so bear with me please :P Anyway, I’m a bit awkward around people—I disregard other’s feelings too often I think. I’m spending more time socializing now than ever before, I feel like an extrovert trapped in an introvert’s mind. Yeah, I feel ignored. It makes me...

So here I am! I found this community while searching for "never had a girlfriend" and thought I'd stick around! Maybe use it to get some (much needed) help about loneliness, and maybe try to help someone else. But who am I? I'm a 22 years old guy who's into computers and stuff. Not an ordinary...