I always talk to more girls when I'm alone (in bars or clubs) and don't have to worry about picking up a large bar-tab because my friend forgot his wallet again, and I don't get drunk since I can manage my own pace. Also, I found people will even approach me if I'm alone... I usually go out...
Going out alone can be just as fun, and it's much better to be alone than out with negative or angry people. Some activities are better alone than others. I'm working on coming out of my shell and getting the courage to talk to strangers...maybe I will meet that special someone while out alone.
I probably won't be much help here, just wanted to comment that I feel the same way much of the time, was bullied in middle school, virgin until 19, very few friends...and so on. Things were good for a few years, and now I've regressed to my highschool self and now I'm 25...feel worthless and...
Here's the short list
The ones with * were the best ones live
Creed
Linkin Park
Staind
Stone Temple Pilots
Trapt
Nonpoint (x3) they are local here!
Skindred
My chemical romance...love them, don't see them live lol
Muse *
Coheed and Cambria *
Katy Perry * (hey at least it wasnt Miley)
Rise...
I just can't take it any more...been seriously thinking about going celibate. Any woman that is the least bit attractive wants nothing to do with me...and I've spent so much time and money trying to learn...its all just been a catastrophic failure. Of the few relationships I've been in, they...
Groups I hate:
Radiohead - ZzZZzzzzzzzzzzzzz. Spoon and Muse are similar in style but have so much more substance to their songs
Aerosmith - generic 80's mumbling
Morrissey - stop whining about how God doesn't exist
Jonas Brothers - explanation even required?
Whats up Duffy, welcome to the site. I tend to have social anxiety too at most times...starting conversations is the worst. What does 'pen pushing' involve?
I had a good year of not being depressed...I tend to stay happy when in a relationship. Since I've been single the last few months it's been really really hard to not end up right where I was. One change I've made lately is believing in predestination and that whatever happens is not controlled...
I'm in college and work 45-60 hrs so it's hard to find time for all of that. I don't understand why but flabby heavy women seem to be into me. Not interested. Maybe they see their ideal selves in me haha.
I managed to gain a little weight in the last year, maybe 8-10 pounds (4 kilos?) to about...
I moved to Pompano beach a few months ago. I've always lived in S Florida. It's nice to be able to go to the beach every week! However I'm pretty shy so I don't really fit in with most people here...I fit in better with people from elsewhere.
It's weird it's such a tourist area but when I feel...
I agree. Don't worry about getting her anything yet...just have a good time. It's better to not think of it as, or call it, a date...women seem to hate that. That way you can still have all of the fun, without so much nervousness.
Been feeling quite lonely lately, since they put me on midnight shift at my job (for this week only thank god). I see my ex-gf for the first time in 5 years the other day and asks me 'So how is it that you don't have a girlfriend?'. That makes me feel good and bad at the same time =/
Now I'm...
Hey witash-
I'm a computer science major also and it sucks there are hardly any girls in the major classes. Yes there are one or two here and there but that doesn't give you a lot of selection. I'm thinking about going to my friends' spy novel class if I ever get a day off of work. (he is an...
I'm grateful to have a few friends that I can sometimes go out with...however I'm a broke college student so I'm either working my main job (for example, right now) or doing extra work to pay credit cards.
Sometimes I'll go see a local band that my friends are playing in or once in a blue moon...
Either approach sucks imho. This might sound emo, but if you are looking for it, you at least can whine to your friends about it and they will try to help you.