Pheenix
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I do some cognitive exercises every day. Self-confidence boosting, relaxation, reading lots of practical books, on the subject, etc. And I do get exposed, I go to school every day, and am looking for extra groups to join.
Even so, aren't there active ways to improve social skills and self-confidence when at home?
Right now, I am planning of booting up a 4-player cooperative game on my Xbox, with the goal of talking as much as I can, making as many people happy as possible, and as a result, get and maintain online friends. Not to substitute real friends with online friends, but to have... practice dummies, basically.
Even so, this doesn't sound like the most productive way to get this accomplished. Is there perhaps a more direct way to work on your social skills?
And by work I mean that you do know what the problems are, they just persist because you are used to them, or panic and respond instinctively in social interactions.
Self-confidence being the main problem. Practicing speech habits is easy, but making sure that they actually come out when someone hits you up is something else.
Even so, aren't there active ways to improve social skills and self-confidence when at home?
Right now, I am planning of booting up a 4-player cooperative game on my Xbox, with the goal of talking as much as I can, making as many people happy as possible, and as a result, get and maintain online friends. Not to substitute real friends with online friends, but to have... practice dummies, basically.
Even so, this doesn't sound like the most productive way to get this accomplished. Is there perhaps a more direct way to work on your social skills?
And by work I mean that you do know what the problems are, they just persist because you are used to them, or panic and respond instinctively in social interactions.
Self-confidence being the main problem. Practicing speech habits is easy, but making sure that they actually come out when someone hits you up is something else.