All you people who are lonely and join this site, but never post.

[Skorian]

Might I ask why?

I already answered. But if you want a little wider explanation......I think it is unexceptible to type exact thing that someone already wrote. Especialy annoying when someone want to ask about different oppinions and they read the same things on few pages.
Lets just say that oppinions are numbers then it is like : 1111211132211 So its like spam, aren't you agree ?

No, I don't really agree, but to each their own.

 

[Skorian]

Bumpy!

 

[phant0m]

I havent said much but part of it was I forgot about the site and the other part was that the site wasnt that busy when I joined almost a year ago. It seems busier now though, I still forget I'm registered on this site at times

 

[Skorian]

Everyone should say more. There is NOTHING to lose.

 

[Thumbs]

as a new member, I will perform my duty and continue this thread. Now for something that makes me happy:

[youtube]s7rEqRxnMkY[/youtube]

 

[Connection-Refused]

SPEAK!!!!!

No...

 

[Skorian]

SPEAK!!!!!

No...

To late

 

[VanillaCreme]

Can't force someone to post, or say anything. They will when they want too, when they feel like it.

 

[Bluey]

Yes when you have something to say they well post. I used to have a lot moor to say. But some days I can't be bothered. Being depressed and messed of with the world makes you like that you know. I like to think that the ppl that come here but don't post read something that helped them and then moved on. IDK maybe am just an optermist?

 

[santosh]

i want to say something
today i feel too lonely
i feel like whole world dump me
the person whom i like most
doesn't want to talk to me
its like life end for me
can some body help me out

 

[Rammy]

I wouldn't worry about those who rarely or never post, not everyone comes to these places to socialise, as bluey mentioned, some may just want to read something they relate to and will post if something strikes a particular chord. Not everyone wants to join in discussions, I for one rarely post anywhere, besides plenty of members contribute regularly. Different strokes, you know

 

[Knight]

I used to do that a lot before I joined ALL I would just read posts and articles about people going through similar experiences.

 

[Carcass Raid]

For a site about loneliness and stuff it seems a bit too cliquey for me. Not to mention I just don't fit in :/

 

[wheels]

I moved the computer and I`m having problems getting connected. And I post more at Ihatemydamnlife.com

 

[indigo999]

I have been a member of many mental health forums for years but rarely post in any these days. If I post people ignore or dislike me and it makes me feel worse and even more of a freak. All these mental health forums are cliquey. if you are weird and a loner people don't like you which is ironic as these forums are for people who are weird and lonely. The chatty people are always the most popular,online or in real life.

 

[fortasse]

I have been a member of many mental health forums for years but rarely post in any these days. If I post people ignore or dislike me and it makes me feel worse and even more of a freak. All these mental health forums are cliquey. if you are weird and a loner people don't like you which is ironic as these forums are for people who are weird and lonely. The chatty people are always the most popular,online or in real life.

I've learned to just keep posting until people start responding. I get about a 1 in 10 response. Also, the more you post, the more comfortable you'll become with posting. And then you can become one of the chatty peoples online.

 

[indigo999]

I've learned to just keep posting until people start responding. I get about a 1 in 10 response. Also, the more you post, the more comfortable you'll become with posting. And then you can become one of the chatty peoples online.

I'm not sure. I think many people with mental health problems are not the chatty or happy type and don't come across very well especially on internet forums. I feel the most lonely and desperate when I feel depressed usually late at night and yet that's when I find it the hardest to reply to anyone or make any decent conversation. Its hardly surprising though as we generally avoid miserable people in real life unless we know them and want to help.

 

[fortasse]

I'm not sure. I think many people with mental health problems are not the chatty or happy type and don't come across very well especially on internet forums. I feel the most lonely and desperate when I feel depressed usually late at night and yet that's when I find it the hardest to reply to anyone or make any decent conversation. Its hardly surprising though as we generally avoid miserable people in real life unless we know them and want to help.

I see. well that would make it harder to post.

Maybe you should try posting once or twice late at night while you're feeling lonely, and see what comes of it.

As to being miserable(and thus leading to people avoiding you), I don't think one has to make posts about being miserable just because one is miserable. I mean, you could if you wanted to, but you could also post about something as banal as the weather.

 

[serenity107]

Some days are so quiet I almost wonder if half the world just vanished. Especially on weekends.

I am tempted to run through topics shouting "ECHO ECHO ECHO"

I know there are some people who have been here months and hardly posted at all. They are just words after all. There is no safer place in the whole world to talk then online like this. There are no perfect words. For those that feel invisible, it's because you are so quiet that you fade away from lack of showing people who you are. No one can read other's minds. Don't you think it's time to at least let out a peep? There is no time like the present.

You are sooo right. I joined this site today because I'm so tired of feeling like I have no personality and the ability to just talk about how I really feel without the fear of being labeled crazy. Love your take on things....YOU ROCK!

 

[jay3206]

I'm not sure. I think many people with mental health problems are not the chatty or happy type and don't come across very well especially on internet forums. I feel the most lonely and desperate when I feel depressed usually late at night and yet that's when I find it the hardest to reply to anyone or make any decent conversation. Its hardly surprising though as we generally avoid miserable people in real life unless we know them and want to help.

This pretty much sums up how I feel. The feelings usually hit me at night, when there are no other activities distracting me from the fact. I also find it pretty hard to strike up a conversation normally, so it somewhat transfers over to the Internet.

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