pearl92 said:
I guess some people aren't meant to be, and no matter how many times they bust their asses to change and desperately try to make friends, find their soul mate and build a healthy social life where people love and care for them, it just can't happen to them because its their fate thats been chosen for them. To eternally rot in loneliness. I don't believe in no God or religion whatsoever. Everything happens for a reason. Its all about fate. And FATE can be quite unfair sometimes. Life isn't fair, you can't always get what you want. They say you could put your mind to anything, that goes for most people. But unfortunately some people just have to be left in the dark. Never to see the light or receive the things they truly want that they just can't get. This has nothing at all to do with Karma, it just happens like cancer. People are born with this curse. And there is no way to get rid of it.
I don't think it's ALL about fate. Actions have consequences and there is such a thing called cause and effect.
You won't be left in the dark if you try all possible ways of making changes happen. Life is vast and wide and there are so many different opportunities out there for you to take up, it's a matter of whether you have found it or not or whether it's the right time or not. I believe in fate, yes, fate probably determines when something happens, but whether it happens or not depends on your efforts.
With your way of thinking of how it's a curse and can never get rid of it will just let things be that way for you. Mindset also plays an important role in how things work out. You've no idea how powerful the mind is in the way you see things in life.
Also, I don't think anyone would wish to get cancer. Please don't wish for that as even though I'm a stranger, I think I value your life in this world as I believe you can also do good things to other less fortunate people and make this world a better place, even on a small part of the earth.