Ugly could mean a lot of things, lack of intelligence, talent, good looks or any number traits that are considered unattractive but I'm going to talk about appearance seeing as it's a major problem for me personally and I'm sure a lot of others too. Let's face it some people are better looking, the Greeks made it into a maths problem for goodness sakes and people are generally attracted to the healthy average in terms of weight, but not all people aren't going to fit into this ideal, in some cases this can be changed this even without surgery but for most of us it can't, this usually goes one of three possible ways, either screeching at everyone who doesn't think you're attractive that you're beautiful and can't be judged (if you do that then I doubt you're beautiful in the inside either, they aren't obligated to find you attractive and no one is above judgement), you could go into a depression becoming obsessed with how your hips don't look right or your eyes are too close together (this can involve projecting you're flaws into others, crash dieting, excessive make up or surgeries ect) or you could accept that you're not good looking and learn to love other parts of yourself, how you helped that person who fell over or how you're good at guitar.
The third option is clearly the best, we all know it, but it's really difficult to think like that when humans by nature are obsessed with being the best at attracting someone. There's not a lot I can do to have everyone think like that except tell you that every minute you spend obsessing over your physical flaws could be spent exercising, doing something you enjoy, studying, helping others or just improving your personality.
I'm going to get some heat for some of the things I said but I don't regret any of it, I'm ugly too so it's not like I can talk down to anyone, also if someone could explain the policy on cursing I'd appreciate it, I'm playing it safe but it's hard when I tended to curse so much irl with friends
The third option is clearly the best, we all know it, but it's really difficult to think like that when humans by nature are obsessed with being the best at attracting someone. There's not a lot I can do to have everyone think like that except tell you that every minute you spend obsessing over your physical flaws could be spent exercising, doing something you enjoy, studying, helping others or just improving your personality.
I'm going to get some heat for some of the things I said but I don't regret any of it, I'm ugly too so it's not like I can talk down to anyone, also if someone could explain the policy on cursing I'd appreciate it, I'm playing it safe but it's hard when I tended to curse so much irl with friends