dd11
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I have noticed that people who are stuck, often engage in catastrophic language. As in I ALWAYS do this wrong. Or, this happened to me today and it is a Catastrophe, etc. I think our language colors our perception of the world and affects the way we think about things and our moods. Bumping into someone's fender at the grocery store might be annoying for instance, but do we paint that as more a problem than it really is? It's a minor inconvenience. It's a bit annoying. It may even be a bit of a financial set back. But, how do we talk to ourselves when something like that happens? Do you beat yourself and tell yourself that you are "always messing up", etc. or do you just recognized that maybe you just made a mistake and misjudged the parking spot? Anyway, I guess my point is, I do think it is important to listen to what we say to ourselves and the language we use. Thoughts?