Roflmao...it means they want sex ...good sex.
Leaning how to listen to what people is really saying.
It require your unattentive attention.
It also require that you put your preconception aside.
100% required for you to shut the fresia up and really, really listen
to the other person and not cut them off while they're in
a middle of a sentence or trying to communicate something to you.
For those moments...you must learn how to get out of yourself becuase it's not all about me...me..me...lol
It'll be easier to decode, if a person is just sharing themselves with you
and not really want your opionions nor input, verse if they're asking you for help.
Generally...most people just want someone to listen to them.
This will also build trust and not leave the person fustrated you're communcating with.
Once a person feels comfortable talking to you (by you listening) without the fear or being
judge, redicue, rejected or critisize,....They'll open up more, becuase they will feel no more or no less
than you...mmmm, ON THE SAME WAVE LENGTH or THE SAME PAGE.
In other word...as Bluey said...it's about understanding their world , life or the person.
It require the you obverse the tone of vioce of the other person,
their body language, thier mood.
Sometimes you have to learn how to read between the lines
of what a person is really trying to tell you.
mmmm...honey attracts bees. This is a good stratagy when trying
get people to do a task or do something for you...business or pleasure.
Trust....obviously the communition stops if there's not trust
involved...at whatever level ...wheather it be business or pleasure.
well..women have been know to strip butt ass naked for me, just
becuase I said "I like milk and cookies".
Then we get into body talking...lmao
Evidently she trusted me with her body...that i won't judge, redicue, critisize her imperfections.
In other words..I accepted her as she is. She bascially just wanted to share an experince with me.
And she also knows...I'll listen, be attentive, be in the moment, follow instructions and give her what she wants.
She's no longer living in fear and not afraid to tell me straight up of what she wants.
Becuase it's not always all about me...me...me.
That's becuase I'm no longer living in fear.
Getting NAKED...that's what it's all about.
Striping away the layers of clothing (FEARS) and accepting ourselves as who we are.
TRUST that we'll be accepted as who we truley are.
We are LOVE underneath all of the BS or layers of fears.
EGO is the biggest fear generater of them all. 1000 and 1 form of delusions that our mind
will generate to keep us from the truth...
The EGO (little mind) lives in my head and will MIS LEAD me all the time of WHAT IS TRUTH.
It dose so to retain control....through FEARS and protection of fears....pick your flavor of fears.lol
LOVE (truth) lives in my heart (super consicous/Big mind/the better part of me)
The ego operate from the perspective of LACK (fear).
LOVE operate from the perspective of GIVING (Fullfillment)
In other words...getting out of myself....means getting out of my fucken head and going into my heart.
You can't be in the moment...if you're in your head. LETGO OF YOUR THOUGHTS...lol
You're either communicate from lack or from love...it's not that complicated.
We are at the truning piont or cross roads of this every moment of our lives.
We have a chioce...if we chose to make it. Instead of being on auto pilot.
What is your chioce today ?
What are you afraid of ?
If we communicate through fear base ego BS...evidently that's poor
communitions skills....lmoa