delledonne11 said:
People like confidence, self assured people. And, at times, I have been accused of "lacking confidence". However, in reality, I don't lack confidence in my abilities to do things or get things done. But, I don't understand the cockiness and phony self assuredness that I see all around. Sorry, I don't know everything about everything. Nor, do I control all the circumstances. I can control myself and what I can control to the extent that I can control. But, I really find people nowadays to be so cocky and cock sure about what they think they know or will do, when you don't know what God or nature or life has in store for you. Thoughts?
Humanity is very fragile. Everyone is fragile and they know they are fragile.
Confidence is that cloak that some people love to wear because it not only hides their own fragility but it hides the fragility of those around them, too.
People become absorbed into this veil, this illusion, just as anyone might become absorbed into a book of fantasy, or a movie about magic or love, or any video game. It's all the same thing really, an escape from reality.
It is that illusion that all is right with the world, and that all things will be right.
Most people cannot let go of this illusion because if they do, they become like many here on this forum... Lonely, insecure, and vulnerable.
The realists, if there even are such a thing, are the people who look at all of this and see that these delusions are merely just the reflection of humanity's fear, the fear that human society itself has yet to overcome.
So it's simply just me, and simply just you, and simply just any human being. Afraid of everything we cannot prevent, afraid of our own mortality, afraid of who and what we really are. That is reality minus the delusions of confidence and ego.
It is not a very pretty picture, and that is why we all hide from it. Some more than others.