Drew88
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Trent said:yet another thread implying that all women are superficial in nature and are only influenced by appearances. the OP has a desperate need to cling to this belief at all costs. why? because it supports his filter/view of the world and allows him to rest comfortably in his failures knowing that they are not his fault in any way, but are instead the fault of evil women and their evil ways.
i've broken it down to him in a dozen ways in a dozen threads.
it's about "attraction" not "appearance".
yes, appearances obviously generate attraction. but they are not the ONLY thing that generates attraction. being funny generates attraction, being confident generates attraction, being brave generates attraction, being successful or endeavoring to be successful generates attraction, etc etc etc.
also, i would highly recommend that he read some books on attraction/dating as he may unintentionally be coming off as lame, creepy, boring, codependent, or some other highly unattractive quality in his words and images that is stopping women from responding to him on these dating sites.
i don't believe all women are shallow. and to state this as fact is misogynistic and unfair.
yes, women (in general) may have certain tendencies (as a group) - SAME WITH MEN - but people are not "groups", they are "individuals" and should be judged as such.
to the OP, if half the time you spent bitching about how shallow women are was spent bettering yourself (and not just your appearance, but you PERSONALITY, DEMEANOR, EMOTIONS, and GAME), then maybe your next thread will be about the hot piece you got last night?
Yeap, I am Still Screwed.