LoneKiller
Well-known member
Hi!
I think that this thread is an important one. In my experience, I've noticed that people who have never been addicted to something seem to have all the answers to help the addicted. "Get a job", "Spend your money on something else", "Do things to keep your mind off of it". As noble as all these suggestions are, if they aren't coming from someone who has never been addicted to something, you may as well talk to the wall. Addicts very rarely listen to those who haven't been where they're at. Living with addicts isn't enough to truly understand the torture of actually being one.
I'm not without sympathy for the families who are in pain because their loved ones are dying right in front of them. The addict steals their family's possessions to get their fix and tearing their family apart. I understand that. I'm not proud of it, but to buy my liquor one time I stole a little north of $2000 worth of my mother's jewelry, so yes, I can understand that the ones close to you while they love you, get extremely pissed off and hurt.
What so many misunderstand, is that nobody wakes up one morning and decides they're going to take up drug and alcohol abuse as a lifestyle.
It's hard to have sympathy for an addict when you have never experienced it personally. Nobody likes being an addict, but it just consumes you and you can't beat on your own. That's the whole essence
of being an addict. If they could help themselves, they wouldn't be one.
However, if an addict finally realizes he or she needs help and doesn't take it, will receive no pity from me whatsoever. When you are an addict, people who love you and care about you will try their best to help, but because of your current mental sickness, you perceive it as an attack not a loving act of compassion.
I know this is a long thread readers, but I could author a book on this subject from my own life's experience, not read it in some GD textbook in a classroom that today's mental health "Professionals" used to attend.
I guess what I'm trying to get across to everyone is to please try and have more compassion for these truly ill people. You are not dealing with a bad person, you are dealing with a chemical.
I think that this thread is an important one. In my experience, I've noticed that people who have never been addicted to something seem to have all the answers to help the addicted. "Get a job", "Spend your money on something else", "Do things to keep your mind off of it". As noble as all these suggestions are, if they aren't coming from someone who has never been addicted to something, you may as well talk to the wall. Addicts very rarely listen to those who haven't been where they're at. Living with addicts isn't enough to truly understand the torture of actually being one.
I'm not without sympathy for the families who are in pain because their loved ones are dying right in front of them. The addict steals their family's possessions to get their fix and tearing their family apart. I understand that. I'm not proud of it, but to buy my liquor one time I stole a little north of $2000 worth of my mother's jewelry, so yes, I can understand that the ones close to you while they love you, get extremely pissed off and hurt.
What so many misunderstand, is that nobody wakes up one morning and decides they're going to take up drug and alcohol abuse as a lifestyle.
It's hard to have sympathy for an addict when you have never experienced it personally. Nobody likes being an addict, but it just consumes you and you can't beat on your own. That's the whole essence
of being an addict. If they could help themselves, they wouldn't be one.
However, if an addict finally realizes he or she needs help and doesn't take it, will receive no pity from me whatsoever. When you are an addict, people who love you and care about you will try their best to help, but because of your current mental sickness, you perceive it as an attack not a loving act of compassion.
I know this is a long thread readers, but I could author a book on this subject from my own life's experience, not read it in some GD textbook in a classroom that today's mental health "Professionals" used to attend.
I guess what I'm trying to get across to everyone is to please try and have more compassion for these truly ill people. You are not dealing with a bad person, you are dealing with a chemical.