firebird85
Well-known member
I'm willing to touch on a very controversial subject that alot of men have a hard time expressing because of the shame factor. I'm trying my best to express this in a non-derogatory way.
What is life really like for individuals deemed unworthy of love or affection?
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Over the years it's occured to me that there are more and more men out there who could be considered incel or involuntarily celibate. Usually these guys are between ages 20-50 and never had any real experience with the opposite sex, or very little (maybe one relationship in their whole life, that ended, etc.). Usually they are average looking, nice, tall, medium, skinny, but they just can't get a woman in their life. Even if they have a job or try to improve themselves. This is usually when a guy realizes that the problem isn't him, but the way women are programmed, and the way society is, considering all the stereotypes out there, like the 40 year old virgin movies, and the media portrasying men as wimps and women as angels of light that can do no wrong. The only time this topic comes up in the mainstream is when big stuff happens like George Sodini. The guy who killed innocent people, and himself because he couldn't get a woman in his life. Let me tell you a little bit about the shame factor, and how the world is against men.
[video=youtube]
If a guy tells people in real life that he's 40 years old and never had a girlfriend in his life because of the way women are and the way society is the response will always be "you need therapy" or "dude, you're a misogynist". Why should a guy have to go to therapy for something that should be a right? IOW it's not their fault that they are suffering. If you've been rejected in the dating scene why should you have to go to therapy when if you went to some other country foreign women might treat you like an actual human being. The shame factor that's used against men is like telling a rape victim or someone who got scammed by the credit card industry they need counseling instead of prosecuting the rapist and going after the company that ripped you off. I used that as an example. If a guy can have a good life in another country and be well liked there but it's the total opposite in his own country then it's obviously not him that has a problem. The problem falls on the society.
[video=youtube]
[video=youtube]
The truth is there's an evil force out there that has manifested itself into people in all of western society. My message to any guy who can feel the shame factor is this, anytime someone shames you for expressing your emotions of how you feel remeber that the whole woman hater dude you gotta have confidence dude you need therapy thing really doesn't make sense. It's just an excuse the sheeple like to throw on guys who are suffering. I'd go as far to say that involuntary celibacy in males or forced celibacy is a taboo subject. It's worse than being a neo-nazi who's a famous hollywood actor. If you went on an internet forum and made a post like this, or you were sitting around a campfire and you told people your thoughts about not being able to meet women all the women would start getting beligerent and all the men would start defending the women. My opinion on why guys will defend a woman's bad behavior is because in their mind they are thinking "wellif I defend her bad actions then I'll get laid and admired, even though I'm living the lonely life too". So they don't care if they sell out. When ultimately, the woman will always go home with the bad boy. 10 men defending her, while she only goes with the bad boy or the alpha. The bottom line is this is a taboo subject. It's probably the most controversial subject in all humanity.
[video=youtube]http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=1-D3xY-d-pE[/video]
I'm 20 years old, soon to be 21. I never had any girlfriend or relationship before, nor sex. I never even got the chance to have a girl be a simple friend, that's right. So far not one girl on this earth has truly been a 'friend' to me., or known me and my existance for longer than 2 seconds. Let alone flirting, or anything else. I'm practically no better than a 2 year old kid. I definetly never had a chance. Not exactly from a lack of trying either. I blame myself. I blame certain circumstances that surrounded my life so far. I also blame the entire female gender, for ignoring me my whole life, being so jaded, or shall I say, throwing away the key to happiness. I'm just another one of those lonely dudes who stays up til 2am wondering what if. I think alot of guys do that. Because when you're a guy and you live this type of life, or a similar type of life, at some point it will mess with your psyche and change your views and opinions on the world and other people. At some point it will make you question yourself and your existance. The world don't make sense. Life doesn't make sense. Your life doesn't make sense. It repeats in your mind over and over. Some of you will understand this. It's almost like your mind gets poisoned, it makes you see things differently. You see different paradigms of life. I blame our society too. You guys know the whole deal with that but I can't leave society out. I think men have more of a heart than women ever will. I don't mean to say that in a derogatory way, either. For example, if a guy saw a woman without a boyfriend who desperately wanted one or a husbaned, that guy would always go out of his way to find that girl a husband. But if you turned the situation around and a guy told a woman he was living a life of datelessness because of the way the system is setup, women will just say "it's alright, you'll get through it, someday the right one will come along". Because they think because you're a guy you'll get through it somehow. Women are just so disconnected from mens emotions it's crazy. The lopsided dating scene alone proves that.
[video=youtube]http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=kpjvs3oQvx0[/video]
I'm sure most people know how the dating system is rigged against men or certain men while all women have the advantage. There's a huge difference between choosing to be alone and being ostracized for being who you are.
[video=youtube]http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=EQxuWlgu3Qs&feature=related[/video]
The PUA industry and "dude you gotta have confidence" is all blue air. You can learn and master all the PUA skills you want, but if a woman doesn't like you from the get go, it's game over for you, and no amount of PUA skills will change that. Basically, you can't create attraction out of thin air. If the woman likes you from the get go, the PUA stuff could only help you, but you can't create anything out of nothing. I could put the PUA industry out of business with that statement alone. I could walk in to a PUA class and say "look, the problem with the dating scene today isn't that men aren't good enough, it's because women are jaded and on and on and on." That's one thing they don't want you to know about. My response to the "dude you gotta have confidence is the same idea, yeah you can have confidence, but you need to get that confidence from something backing you up. You can't make it out of thin air. And once again, if the woman thinks you're ugly, you're basically just an UGLY GUY WITH CONFIDENCE. You can see guys at the gym who have muscles and work out but their faces are mis-shaped and ugly. So in that case what you have is an ugly guy with confidence. Could mental illness be the new form of racism? (particularly in men, who are more prone). Considering all the stigma and stereotypes out there.
[video=youtube]http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=ff0spUQ43OY&feature=related[/video]
[video=youtube]http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=0lNWgGmfV0Q&feature=related[/video]
I guess it's like the dark ages. I was thinking about job interviews, and how sometimes people will get weeded out or judged unfairly if they have bad social skills or a mental illness. Online dating itself is a disaster for men. I deleted my POF account weeks ago, I also had an OKcupid account where I would get tons of views but no message. It's fun to use the dating sites though, because it help me prove the points I make. I always get nothing but views, and if I do get a message (1 or less) the girl stop answering or is odd. The response to that might be that I suck at making profiles. But then, you make a fake profile with a random female picture and you get 50 responses in a few hours. Like fake. Or non-genuine. Even if a guy writes huge well thought messages, I think it's because of how jaded women are today and the fact that it's a sausage fest. I made sure I emailed a few who viewed me without messaging a cuss filled farewell letter. If anyone abuses dating sites it's the females who do it. No brainer there. Dare I say the guys like me who are looking not necessarily for sex but to meet and get to know a girl, and build some kind of relationship, you can't even get that on there. Anytime you do get a female who is interested in talking it's usually an obese girl. You could be 6'7" and skinny as fresia (but still be built w/e) and still get nowhere. I'm proof of that. I hate repeating this but I feel better saying it because it's alot better than thinking to yourself maybe it's me that has a problem and not society or women.
[video=youtube]http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=-9PcWJt3h_I&feature=player_embedded[/video]
BTW, I do go on rants about all this stuff and contrary to what most of the girls I've talked to tell me (you need confidence, your a loser, stop looking for super models blah blah blah". People like to tell us that we are blaming the world for our problems and while some of it might be our fault, I'm not going to sit here and say the world we live in is all sunshine and roses either. Because it's not. The system is rigged. It's a fact of life. A hard fact of life. I remember when I was 12 and 13 I would imagine about having a girlfriend and thinking it would be an easy thing but eventually it started to dawn on me that women had the advantage. Online dating sites are 100% rigged against us as males. You know what's funny, on plentyoffish this girl once sent me a message but I already know what's going to happen. I don't know if I'm even going to bother sending my own messages out because I know I'll get ignored. Doesn't matter if I write a 2 page letter to the girl introducing myself or even saying hello. The response rate is an absolute 0. I was interested in mostly average girls or girls who are like a 4/5/6 maybe a little chubby or ugly but thin, not super models or celebrity types like everyone accuses me of going after. It's so **** hard to get an AVERAGE or below girl. I just can't believe it. All the average and ugly girls are like extinct and the ones you do run into are either already taken, or they're super picky and have unlimited options. It's nuts. If you have a vagina you do have unlimited options. Especially in countries where feminism is rampant, lopsided gender roles (limited women and too many available men), and of course you have a society that puts one gender (female) on a pedestal so high that we are living in an era where the value or the D/S/R value of a woman is about 100 times more than a guy. You'll hear many women or girls talking about quote on quote being alone, when they have truly no idea what it feels like to be alone. Compare a guy who's 35 and never had a relationship or dated to a girl who's 35 and divorced or had 1 or 2 relationships, and lost her virginity already, or a girl who's 20-35 and never had a boyfriend and still a virgin (BUT had plenty of offers from guys, and have PLENTY of options of available men, but they are just too picky and shallow), that comparison is a no brainer. Sorry ladies. You have no idea what real loneliness is.
[video=youtube]http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=lb5wMItfBFE[/video]
Then you have human nature 101, gender roles, the way the media and hollywood programs people to act and think like the materialism bug. A girl will deny that because she can't have the top 20% of alpha males or bad boys. A girl can find a guy. Any guy easily. As for online dating, well, I'll let the lopsided ratios and everything else speak for itself. Every woman will always have a guy but you could see hundreds of thousands or millions of men all over the western world that will live very lonely lives and almost never find a woman. A 20-25 year old girl who can't find a boyfriend is lying because there's plenty of nice, genuine, average or good looking dudes who never had a girlfriend or date period that would be willing to be with them. They have unlimited options. Women having it easier and everything being rigged against males is a fact of life. Not sexism, misogyny, bitterness or any of that other crap, just telling it like it is. Someone asked me why women who have disabilities like amputated legs, or blindness, or autism, ADD or skin diseases always go for guys who are normal and healthy instead of going after a guy who is just like them. While the guys who have a disability are singled out from ALL women.
[video=youtube][video=youtube]http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=aoMOY78d-m8[/video]
[video=youtube]http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=USGGgx7lgsQ[/video]
I think there's something happening in our culture women will always have a guy but you could see hundreds of thousands or million of guys that will either have it tougher then nails or will never find a woman! So if a woman has autism or amputated legs, why should she be allowed to have a normal guy to procreate with but a guy who has amputated legs, or deafness, or ADD will not be allowed to get married or procreate? Why are guys exempt? Why is there such an anti-male aura around this? This is actually very truthful. I hate it when people think all of us love-shies or incels or guys who can't meet women just blame women for all our problems. I do in fact agree that men are partly to blame for women having all the choice, power, etc. these days. Not only men, but I think our society in general has put the female up on a pedestal. If the united states economy crashed for real I think some things would change though. The dating scene has gotten so unbalanced that it's led to where every woman will be able to have a guy, but you will see hundreds of thousands of men that will almost never find a woman. So yes, in a nutshell, if men were built just as shallow and selective as women and weren't all pussy whipped pussy beggars things would be alot better. Have you noticed how men need to have a social life, be outgoing, have a job and a car and good looks to get a woman to be attracted but the only thing a female needs is to be herself. She doesn't need to do anything but be a female. Men are totally royally screwed over in this system. I don't think this kind of system can last. I'll always wonder why I'm invisible to women, why I just don't catch their attention. It doesn't matter how I dress or look or act, I just don't exist to them, and I finally realize there's something going on that isn't my fault.
[video=youtube]http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=REKN7y53OCI[/video]
It's a real problem, it exists, and there needs to be light shed on it. I'm living it, chances are you are too (the lonely guys). I think just being aware of what's against you is SO much more comforting. I can't even imagine how many dateless guys are pulling their hair out looking for answers. My life has taken somewhat of a 180 degree turn this month but the love life issue is still here with me. Yes harp, that's another gripe I have with the world. Like nobody out there is genuine. See I consider myself genuine because I try the best to be real with everyone. If I'm gonna get to know someone I'm not doing it because of materialism or with ulterior motives....I just want to befriend them. I think people in general we all have a dark side or a cruel nature in us. Everybody can be 2 faced, but I think I'm alot more genuine then others.
Like when people claim to be your friends, but you refuse to do something like screw someone over, or hurt someone, they turn on you. I'm turned off by human nature in alot of ways. One day I thought about something I feel like saying to women on dating sites. Something like:
You've ignored me my entire life.
Ever since the beginning of my existance.
No friendship. No politeness. No acknowledgement. Not a word. Not a look. Not a conversation. Not a greeting. Not a shred of interaction or communication.
Just ignorance.
All those rainy days were sad because of you. You show me ignorance. Coldness. Harshness. I am repulsive to you. You hate me. You ignore me no matter what.
I don't exist to you. This is what you tell yourself.
And you still do. Everywhere I go. Every minute, hour and milisecond that goes by.
You've left a permanent scar on me that will never go away, because I don't exist to you. That scar, it's in my psyche. In my mind. In my emotions. You did it. You've ultimately rejected me silently as an entire gender.
I will never forgive you, not because I don't want to, but because the scar you've gave me says so, because you are only 1 of the reasons why my life is miserable, and you are also partly responsible for my social life dying.
That's how I feel sometimes about living this dateless life. Alot of guys do!
There's alot of good videos out there I'd like people to listen to. Alot of these summarize what I'm saying. Take a look and let me know what you think.
[video=youtube]http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=wPMtGziuYFE[/video]
[video=youtube]http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=AlME9u4rulg[/video]
[video=youtube]http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=nUEnhB79SJY[/video]
[video=youtube]http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=jEuLidm5G-w[/video]
[video=youtube]http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=YobZjepvQD0[/video]
[video=youtube]http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=LT9QG9zZfF4[/video]
[video=youtube]http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=sD-UcunBAh0[/video]
[video=youtube]http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=QcW4jvGicLs[/video]
[video=youtube]http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=zCLjUGtgwoA[/video]
[video=youtube]http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=IcCwKk16aUs[/video]
[video=youtube]http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=ZFq8bDJvBas&feature=related[/video]
[video=youtube]http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=aM2Btn_E5KA&feature=related[/video]
What is life really like for individuals deemed unworthy of love or affection?
[video=youtube]
[video=youtube]
Over the years it's occured to me that there are more and more men out there who could be considered incel or involuntarily celibate. Usually these guys are between ages 20-50 and never had any real experience with the opposite sex, or very little (maybe one relationship in their whole life, that ended, etc.). Usually they are average looking, nice, tall, medium, skinny, but they just can't get a woman in their life. Even if they have a job or try to improve themselves. This is usually when a guy realizes that the problem isn't him, but the way women are programmed, and the way society is, considering all the stereotypes out there, like the 40 year old virgin movies, and the media portrasying men as wimps and women as angels of light that can do no wrong. The only time this topic comes up in the mainstream is when big stuff happens like George Sodini. The guy who killed innocent people, and himself because he couldn't get a woman in his life. Let me tell you a little bit about the shame factor, and how the world is against men.
[video=youtube]
If a guy tells people in real life that he's 40 years old and never had a girlfriend in his life because of the way women are and the way society is the response will always be "you need therapy" or "dude, you're a misogynist". Why should a guy have to go to therapy for something that should be a right? IOW it's not their fault that they are suffering. If you've been rejected in the dating scene why should you have to go to therapy when if you went to some other country foreign women might treat you like an actual human being. The shame factor that's used against men is like telling a rape victim or someone who got scammed by the credit card industry they need counseling instead of prosecuting the rapist and going after the company that ripped you off. I used that as an example. If a guy can have a good life in another country and be well liked there but it's the total opposite in his own country then it's obviously not him that has a problem. The problem falls on the society.
[video=youtube]
[video=youtube]
The truth is there's an evil force out there that has manifested itself into people in all of western society. My message to any guy who can feel the shame factor is this, anytime someone shames you for expressing your emotions of how you feel remeber that the whole woman hater dude you gotta have confidence dude you need therapy thing really doesn't make sense. It's just an excuse the sheeple like to throw on guys who are suffering. I'd go as far to say that involuntary celibacy in males or forced celibacy is a taboo subject. It's worse than being a neo-nazi who's a famous hollywood actor. If you went on an internet forum and made a post like this, or you were sitting around a campfire and you told people your thoughts about not being able to meet women all the women would start getting beligerent and all the men would start defending the women. My opinion on why guys will defend a woman's bad behavior is because in their mind they are thinking "wellif I defend her bad actions then I'll get laid and admired, even though I'm living the lonely life too". So they don't care if they sell out. When ultimately, the woman will always go home with the bad boy. 10 men defending her, while she only goes with the bad boy or the alpha. The bottom line is this is a taboo subject. It's probably the most controversial subject in all humanity.
[video=youtube]http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=1-D3xY-d-pE[/video]
I'm 20 years old, soon to be 21. I never had any girlfriend or relationship before, nor sex. I never even got the chance to have a girl be a simple friend, that's right. So far not one girl on this earth has truly been a 'friend' to me., or known me and my existance for longer than 2 seconds. Let alone flirting, or anything else. I'm practically no better than a 2 year old kid. I definetly never had a chance. Not exactly from a lack of trying either. I blame myself. I blame certain circumstances that surrounded my life so far. I also blame the entire female gender, for ignoring me my whole life, being so jaded, or shall I say, throwing away the key to happiness. I'm just another one of those lonely dudes who stays up til 2am wondering what if. I think alot of guys do that. Because when you're a guy and you live this type of life, or a similar type of life, at some point it will mess with your psyche and change your views and opinions on the world and other people. At some point it will make you question yourself and your existance. The world don't make sense. Life doesn't make sense. Your life doesn't make sense. It repeats in your mind over and over. Some of you will understand this. It's almost like your mind gets poisoned, it makes you see things differently. You see different paradigms of life. I blame our society too. You guys know the whole deal with that but I can't leave society out. I think men have more of a heart than women ever will. I don't mean to say that in a derogatory way, either. For example, if a guy saw a woman without a boyfriend who desperately wanted one or a husbaned, that guy would always go out of his way to find that girl a husband. But if you turned the situation around and a guy told a woman he was living a life of datelessness because of the way the system is setup, women will just say "it's alright, you'll get through it, someday the right one will come along". Because they think because you're a guy you'll get through it somehow. Women are just so disconnected from mens emotions it's crazy. The lopsided dating scene alone proves that.
[video=youtube]http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=kpjvs3oQvx0[/video]
I'm sure most people know how the dating system is rigged against men or certain men while all women have the advantage. There's a huge difference between choosing to be alone and being ostracized for being who you are.
[video=youtube]http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=EQxuWlgu3Qs&feature=related[/video]
The PUA industry and "dude you gotta have confidence" is all blue air. You can learn and master all the PUA skills you want, but if a woman doesn't like you from the get go, it's game over for you, and no amount of PUA skills will change that. Basically, you can't create attraction out of thin air. If the woman likes you from the get go, the PUA stuff could only help you, but you can't create anything out of nothing. I could put the PUA industry out of business with that statement alone. I could walk in to a PUA class and say "look, the problem with the dating scene today isn't that men aren't good enough, it's because women are jaded and on and on and on." That's one thing they don't want you to know about. My response to the "dude you gotta have confidence is the same idea, yeah you can have confidence, but you need to get that confidence from something backing you up. You can't make it out of thin air. And once again, if the woman thinks you're ugly, you're basically just an UGLY GUY WITH CONFIDENCE. You can see guys at the gym who have muscles and work out but their faces are mis-shaped and ugly. So in that case what you have is an ugly guy with confidence. Could mental illness be the new form of racism? (particularly in men, who are more prone). Considering all the stigma and stereotypes out there.
[video=youtube]http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=ff0spUQ43OY&feature=related[/video]
[video=youtube]http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=0lNWgGmfV0Q&feature=related[/video]
I guess it's like the dark ages. I was thinking about job interviews, and how sometimes people will get weeded out or judged unfairly if they have bad social skills or a mental illness. Online dating itself is a disaster for men. I deleted my POF account weeks ago, I also had an OKcupid account where I would get tons of views but no message. It's fun to use the dating sites though, because it help me prove the points I make. I always get nothing but views, and if I do get a message (1 or less) the girl stop answering or is odd. The response to that might be that I suck at making profiles. But then, you make a fake profile with a random female picture and you get 50 responses in a few hours. Like fake. Or non-genuine. Even if a guy writes huge well thought messages, I think it's because of how jaded women are today and the fact that it's a sausage fest. I made sure I emailed a few who viewed me without messaging a cuss filled farewell letter. If anyone abuses dating sites it's the females who do it. No brainer there. Dare I say the guys like me who are looking not necessarily for sex but to meet and get to know a girl, and build some kind of relationship, you can't even get that on there. Anytime you do get a female who is interested in talking it's usually an obese girl. You could be 6'7" and skinny as fresia (but still be built w/e) and still get nowhere. I'm proof of that. I hate repeating this but I feel better saying it because it's alot better than thinking to yourself maybe it's me that has a problem and not society or women.
[video=youtube]http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=-9PcWJt3h_I&feature=player_embedded[/video]
BTW, I do go on rants about all this stuff and contrary to what most of the girls I've talked to tell me (you need confidence, your a loser, stop looking for super models blah blah blah". People like to tell us that we are blaming the world for our problems and while some of it might be our fault, I'm not going to sit here and say the world we live in is all sunshine and roses either. Because it's not. The system is rigged. It's a fact of life. A hard fact of life. I remember when I was 12 and 13 I would imagine about having a girlfriend and thinking it would be an easy thing but eventually it started to dawn on me that women had the advantage. Online dating sites are 100% rigged against us as males. You know what's funny, on plentyoffish this girl once sent me a message but I already know what's going to happen. I don't know if I'm even going to bother sending my own messages out because I know I'll get ignored. Doesn't matter if I write a 2 page letter to the girl introducing myself or even saying hello. The response rate is an absolute 0. I was interested in mostly average girls or girls who are like a 4/5/6 maybe a little chubby or ugly but thin, not super models or celebrity types like everyone accuses me of going after. It's so **** hard to get an AVERAGE or below girl. I just can't believe it. All the average and ugly girls are like extinct and the ones you do run into are either already taken, or they're super picky and have unlimited options. It's nuts. If you have a vagina you do have unlimited options. Especially in countries where feminism is rampant, lopsided gender roles (limited women and too many available men), and of course you have a society that puts one gender (female) on a pedestal so high that we are living in an era where the value or the D/S/R value of a woman is about 100 times more than a guy. You'll hear many women or girls talking about quote on quote being alone, when they have truly no idea what it feels like to be alone. Compare a guy who's 35 and never had a relationship or dated to a girl who's 35 and divorced or had 1 or 2 relationships, and lost her virginity already, or a girl who's 20-35 and never had a boyfriend and still a virgin (BUT had plenty of offers from guys, and have PLENTY of options of available men, but they are just too picky and shallow), that comparison is a no brainer. Sorry ladies. You have no idea what real loneliness is.
[video=youtube]http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=lb5wMItfBFE[/video]
Then you have human nature 101, gender roles, the way the media and hollywood programs people to act and think like the materialism bug. A girl will deny that because she can't have the top 20% of alpha males or bad boys. A girl can find a guy. Any guy easily. As for online dating, well, I'll let the lopsided ratios and everything else speak for itself. Every woman will always have a guy but you could see hundreds of thousands or millions of men all over the western world that will live very lonely lives and almost never find a woman. A 20-25 year old girl who can't find a boyfriend is lying because there's plenty of nice, genuine, average or good looking dudes who never had a girlfriend or date period that would be willing to be with them. They have unlimited options. Women having it easier and everything being rigged against males is a fact of life. Not sexism, misogyny, bitterness or any of that other crap, just telling it like it is. Someone asked me why women who have disabilities like amputated legs, or blindness, or autism, ADD or skin diseases always go for guys who are normal and healthy instead of going after a guy who is just like them. While the guys who have a disability are singled out from ALL women.
[video=youtube][video=youtube]http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=aoMOY78d-m8[/video]
[video=youtube]http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=USGGgx7lgsQ[/video]
I think there's something happening in our culture women will always have a guy but you could see hundreds of thousands or million of guys that will either have it tougher then nails or will never find a woman! So if a woman has autism or amputated legs, why should she be allowed to have a normal guy to procreate with but a guy who has amputated legs, or deafness, or ADD will not be allowed to get married or procreate? Why are guys exempt? Why is there such an anti-male aura around this? This is actually very truthful. I hate it when people think all of us love-shies or incels or guys who can't meet women just blame women for all our problems. I do in fact agree that men are partly to blame for women having all the choice, power, etc. these days. Not only men, but I think our society in general has put the female up on a pedestal. If the united states economy crashed for real I think some things would change though. The dating scene has gotten so unbalanced that it's led to where every woman will be able to have a guy, but you will see hundreds of thousands of men that will almost never find a woman. So yes, in a nutshell, if men were built just as shallow and selective as women and weren't all pussy whipped pussy beggars things would be alot better. Have you noticed how men need to have a social life, be outgoing, have a job and a car and good looks to get a woman to be attracted but the only thing a female needs is to be herself. She doesn't need to do anything but be a female. Men are totally royally screwed over in this system. I don't think this kind of system can last. I'll always wonder why I'm invisible to women, why I just don't catch their attention. It doesn't matter how I dress or look or act, I just don't exist to them, and I finally realize there's something going on that isn't my fault.
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It's a real problem, it exists, and there needs to be light shed on it. I'm living it, chances are you are too (the lonely guys). I think just being aware of what's against you is SO much more comforting. I can't even imagine how many dateless guys are pulling their hair out looking for answers. My life has taken somewhat of a 180 degree turn this month but the love life issue is still here with me. Yes harp, that's another gripe I have with the world. Like nobody out there is genuine. See I consider myself genuine because I try the best to be real with everyone. If I'm gonna get to know someone I'm not doing it because of materialism or with ulterior motives....I just want to befriend them. I think people in general we all have a dark side or a cruel nature in us. Everybody can be 2 faced, but I think I'm alot more genuine then others.
Like when people claim to be your friends, but you refuse to do something like screw someone over, or hurt someone, they turn on you. I'm turned off by human nature in alot of ways. One day I thought about something I feel like saying to women on dating sites. Something like:
You've ignored me my entire life.
Ever since the beginning of my existance.
No friendship. No politeness. No acknowledgement. Not a word. Not a look. Not a conversation. Not a greeting. Not a shred of interaction or communication.
Just ignorance.
All those rainy days were sad because of you. You show me ignorance. Coldness. Harshness. I am repulsive to you. You hate me. You ignore me no matter what.
I don't exist to you. This is what you tell yourself.
And you still do. Everywhere I go. Every minute, hour and milisecond that goes by.
You've left a permanent scar on me that will never go away, because I don't exist to you. That scar, it's in my psyche. In my mind. In my emotions. You did it. You've ultimately rejected me silently as an entire gender.
I will never forgive you, not because I don't want to, but because the scar you've gave me says so, because you are only 1 of the reasons why my life is miserable, and you are also partly responsible for my social life dying.
That's how I feel sometimes about living this dateless life. Alot of guys do!
There's alot of good videos out there I'd like people to listen to. Alot of these summarize what I'm saying. Take a look and let me know what you think.
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