Regumika
Well-known member
(There is a real question at the end)
No matter who you are with, there are habits/behaviors that you do not particularly like and often times just hits your nerves. In a relationship, we are supposed to tolerate and overlook some of these habits/behaviors. But i believe that there are some that has to change.
examples of things to overlook:
-how the other wash/stacks dishes
-how the refrigerator is organized (cabinets too)
-how the laundry is folded
-etc.
so the question is.. if one does not like how the other talks, is that something to overlook? or is it grounds to actually change. What about if 1 doesnt like how 2 behaves, but 1 behaves what it told 2 not to do. or expect 2 to do something but does not want to do it themselves. should this be overlooked? or something to be corrected?
No matter who you are with, there are habits/behaviors that you do not particularly like and often times just hits your nerves. In a relationship, we are supposed to tolerate and overlook some of these habits/behaviors. But i believe that there are some that has to change.
examples of things to overlook:
-how the other wash/stacks dishes
-how the refrigerator is organized (cabinets too)
-how the laundry is folded
-etc.
so the question is.. if one does not like how the other talks, is that something to overlook? or is it grounds to actually change. What about if 1 doesnt like how 2 behaves, but 1 behaves what it told 2 not to do. or expect 2 to do something but does not want to do it themselves. should this be overlooked? or something to be corrected?