Questions for the Men

[NoxApex(N/A)]

Well you guys are all a little too squeaky clean and non judgemental to me… so im gonna turn up the heat…

Would you judge a woman that has some really embarrassing videos out there? Like she likes you, wants to be with you but she has got some videos on the internet that were intimate and shouldn't have been shared in all honesty… would you be able to look past that or would you just not wanna be with her due to your.. pride? Shame? Disgust?

I always wondered lolz

That's a fair question. A lot of women wonder this, actually. It's not the first time I've seen this question in this kind of a thread on the internet before.
It varies from man to man. Personally, I'm okay with it. It doesn't bother me at all. I'm more kinda like: Hi pot, I'm kettle. After all, it takes two to tango.

 

[CenotaphGirl]

That's a fair question. A lot of women wonder this, actually. It's not the first time I've seen this question in this kind of a thread on the internet before.
It varies from man to man. Personally, I'm okay with it. It doesn't bother me at all. I'm more kinda like: Hi pot, I'm kettle. After all, it takes two to tango.

And heres me trying to be all original! Thats interesting though. Would be sooo hard for me but i know its not right to judge what happened before me.

 

[NoxApex(N/A)]

And heres me trying to be all original! Thats interesting though. Would be sooo hard for me but i know its not right to judge what happened before me.

The easiest way to let that go is to realize how commonplace it is in society. And then you've gotta ask yourself: Are you looking for a perfect human being that doesn't actually exist, or are you looking at someone for who they are characteristically in the now, rather than in the past?

"Girl has nudes online" is as normal to me as the grass being green and the sky being blue. I mean, the fact that hookup culture is a thing, that apps like Tinder exist, everyone has a phone and camera in their hand, probability is higher and more likely than not.

So as that has become more and more of a prominent thing, I've been in the process of anesthetizing myself more and more to it emotionally.

Because in all actuality: If I spent my life focused on the dos and don'ts of everyone else, that's not really me being in control of and living my life, now is it? That'd be me being controlled by social standards, trying to live up to some unrealistic, unachievable thing. I'd rather just be real.

 

[Finished]

Well you guys are all a little too squeaky clean and non judgemental to me… so im gonna turn up the heat…

Would you judge a woman that has some really embarrassing videos out there? Like she likes you, wants to be with you but she has got some videos on the internet that were intimate and shouldn't have been shared in all honesty… would you be able to look past that or would you just not wanna be with her due to your.. pride? Shame? Disgust?

I always wondered lolz

It depends who she was with. If it was another women then it would be a plus. We could watch the videos together. But if it was with a politician then I would probably have to take a pass on her. Or, if she was like in some very brutal type stuff with several guys. That would also be a pass. If it was just a sex tape with a past boyfriend then it really wouldn't bother me unless it was with like John Holmes or something. She wouldn't be the same after that.

 

[CenotaphGirl]

The easiest way to let that go is to realize how commonplace it is in society. And then you've gotta ask yourself: Are you looking for a perfect human being that doesn't actually exist, or are you looking at someone for who they are characteristically in the now, rather than in the past?

"Girl has nudes online" is as normal to me as the grass being green and the sky being blue. I mean, the fact that hookup culture is a thing, that apps like Tinder exist, everyone has a phone and camera in their hand, probability is higher and more likely than not.

So as that has become more and more of a prominent thing, I've been in the process of anesthetizing myself more and more to it emotionally.

Because in all actuality: If I spent my life focused on the dos and don'ts of everyone else, that's not really me being in control of and living my life, now is it? That'd be me being controlled by social standards, trying to live up to some unrealistic, unachievable thing. I'd rather just be real.

What about your own standards? Where do they come in?

I consider myself someone with extremely high standards, I dont expect perfection but I expect my standards to be met. I get so afraid when I feel like im wasting my time on someone who will never measure up, do you think past misdeeds should come into the measuring process though? Thats what I cant be sure about…

 

[TheSkaFish]

Well you guys are all a little too squeaky clean and non judgemental to me… so im gonna turn up the heat…

Would you judge a woman that has some really embarrassing videos out there? Like she likes you, wants to be with you but she has got some videos on the internet that were intimate and shouldn't have been shared in all honesty… would you be able to look past that or would you just not wanna be with her due to your.. pride? Shame? Disgust?

I always wondered lolz

I mean, I wouldn't be happy about it.

But then again, it's unlikely to ever be an issue, because the kind of person who makes porn, is probably not going to be interested in me in the first place anyway. Our personalities are probably going to be too different right off the bat.

 

[CenotaphGirl]

I mean, I wouldn't be happy about it.

But then again, it's unlikely to ever be an issue, because the kind of person who makes porn, is probably not going to be interested in me in the first place anyway. Our personalities are probably going to be too different right off the bat.

Say its not porn it was something silly she did with her ex and he leaked it after the break up… you know?

 

[TheSkaFish]

Say its not porn it was something silly she did with her ex and he leaked it after the break up… you know?

It would depend on what exactly we are talking about, and how "silly" it really is.

 

[CenotaphGirl]

It would depend on what exactly are we talking about, and how "silly" it really is.

Ska! Im trying to be PG, intimate bedroom moment with her ex was recorded and posted on the internet 3 years before she met you… do you reject her because of that?

 

[Finished]

It would depend on what exactly are we talking about, and how "silly" it really is.

They both dressed up in animal costumes, had sex, and then revealed themselves. ha! ha!

 

[TheSkaFish]

Ska! Im trying to be PG, intimate bedroom moment with her ex was recorded and posted on the internet 3 years before she met you… do you reject her because of that?

Well, I would say that qualifies as porn, and I don't think someone like that would go for me because I'm not naturally a very "edgy" person.

I probably wouldn't go for them either. I can accept that someone has had other partners in the past, but I don't really want to think about it too much, let alone see it, you know? I don't think someone like that would be for me.

 

[CenotaphGirl]

Well, I would say that qualifies as porn, and I don't think someone like that would go for me because I'm not naturally a very "edgy" person.

I probably wouldn't go for them either. I can accept that someone has had other partners in the past, but I don't really want to think about it too much, let alone see it, you know? I don't think someone like that would be for me.

You dont have to watch it Ska lol but no in all seriousness I understand the reservation I wouldnt like it either. I think sometimes though a lot pf people can get wrapped up in what their partner wants to do, so may not mean shes edgy or if she was she may not be any more and wants a second chance from her misdeeds

 

[Finished]

Question for whomever: Would you be okay dressing up in an animal costume and then having sex? I know it's kind of a thing. I think it's interesting because it hides all your physical issues. It also sounds fun and sexy to me. I've never done it. But, I definitely would give it a try. It would be funny to screw, say a tall rabbit. Ha! Ha!

 

[TheSkaFish]

You dont have to watch it Ska lol but no in all seriousness I understand the reservation I wouldnt like it either. I think sometimes though a lot pf people can get wrapped up in what their partner wants to do, so may not mean shes edgy or if she was she may not be any more and wants a second chance from her misdeeds

I'd have to mull it over, it would be a tough call. I definitely understand how pressure can be a factor, for sure.

I guess at the end of the day it would depend on how much I liked the person. I think I'd have to like them a lot, to let something like this go, though.

 

[CenotaphGirl]

I'd have to mull it over, it would be a tough call. I definitely understand how pressure can be a factor, for sure.

I guess at the end of the day it would depend on how much I liked the person. I think I'd have to like them a lot, to let something like this go, though.

Awh skaaaaa thats so romantic, love will make you find a wayyyyy

 

[CenotaphGirl]

Question for whomever: Would you be okay dressing up in an animal costume and then having sex? I know it's kind of a thing. I think it's interesting because it hides all your physical issues. It also sounds fun and sexy to me. I've never done it. But, I definitely would give it a try. It would be funny to screw, say a tall rabbit. Ha! Ha!

No ta, maybe its because I have no physical issues to hide lmao.

 

[ardour]

You mean revenge porn? That’s not her fault in that case. Although I probably wouldn’t be compatible with someone who would video themselves having sex in the first place.

 

[Finished]

No ta, maybe its because I have no physical issues to hide lmao.

Ohhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhh. Burn.......... Ha! ha! I think you'd make a great fox. Ha! Ha!

 

[CenotaphGirl]

You mean revenge porn? That’s not her fault in that case. Although I probably wouldn’t be compatible with someone who would video themselves having sex in the first place.

I like this, I knew there was something you men would get judgey about. Well yeah or maybe it just got leaked idk... but she made a video 3 years ago and now she wants to be your lady lol she obviously cant go back in time, so would that be a complete deal breaker?

 

[CenotaphGirl]

Ohhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhh. Burn.......... Ha! ha! I think you'd make a great fox. Ha! Ha!

Lolz im a foxy mama... idk... I just think I spent wayyy too much on my body to cover it up lmao