Questions for the Men

[TheRealCallie]

No preference for me. I don't really have a type anymore.

I've learnt over the years my ' type ' is actually wrong for me. Here's something that's worked for me; when you meet someone who is not your typical type look at them again and see if you can find one attractive feature. In this way, you can begin to retrain your brain on how it finds beauty.

YES, exactly what I've been telling people all these years. Don't confine yourself to one "type" of person. You never know where or with what person you are actually supposed to be. And it rarely hurts to get to know people.

 

[user15010]

I dye my grey hair red lol

Criminal act! We're done Callie!

 

[TheRealCallie]

Criminal act! We're done Callie!

Perhaps, but think of it when it starts growing out. All that grey sprinkled in with the vivid red.

 

[user15010]

Perhaps, but think of it when it starts growing out. All that grey sprinkled in with the vivid red.

I guess that with the covered eyes I could live with it.

 

[randomguy]

I dye my grey hair red lol

Seriously Callie, as much as I like you, your flirting sucks big time. If you want some tips drop me a pm

 

[TheSkaFish]

^ (considers messaging instead, to get the tips)

 

[TheRealCallie]

(also considers messaging just to see what these tips are)

 

[Claudia1794]

In my early twenties I used to ask this all the time. Most of the time it was blonde or brunette but I had plenty of guys tell me they would have sex with a redhead but not date her. I thought that was hilarious.

 

[CenotaphGirl]

In my early twenties I used to ask this all the time. Most of the time it was blonde or brunette but I had plenty of guys tell me they would have sex with a redhead but not date her. I thought that was hilarious.

I grew up hearing that too, bloody messed up

 

[MrLonely86]

Usuall stereotype here in my country is - Redheads are good for bed activities. Blondes are dumb. Brunettes are smart. XD

 

[Claudia1794]

I grew up hearing that too, bloody messed up

Because redheads are crazy? Or Because “red on the head, fire in the bed”. Actually that could be good or bad so...it’s all silliness anyway

 

[Azariah]

Actually i like all sorts. i like a variety of different colors and styles. its like walking in a garden filled with different flowers vs only one. the more variety the better.

 

[Finished]

Omg omg and when they have blue eyes with the jet black hair… chef’s kiss…

Yeah, unfortunately I'm a light complected blonde guy with blue eyes. Close, but no cigar. When I was younger I got called snowball. I did try dying my hair and eye brows darker brown. But, it looked totally out of place. The rest of the hair on my body is blonde. So it was obvious I tried to go darker. Oh well, I had to give it a try.

 

[Finished]

No preference for me. I don't really have a type anymore.

I've learnt over the years my ' type ' is actually wrong for me. Here's something that's worked for me; when you meet someone who is not your typical type look at them again and see if you can find one attractive feature. In this way, you can begin to retrain your brain on how it finds beauty.

Everybody has several attractive features about them. But, I tried retraining what my brain wants and failed at it. It just said, nice try, now go find me what I really want and stop screwing with me.

 

[Finished]

In my early twenties I used to ask this all the time. Most of the time it was blonde or brunette but I had plenty of guys tell me they would have sex with a redhead but not date her. I thought that was hilarious.

Hmmm. I dated a redhead and it turned out she was just as crazy as all the other women I dated.

 

[Claudia1794]

Hmmm. I dated a redhead and it turned out she was just as crazy as all the other women I dated.

Birds of a feather

 

[Finished]

Birds of a feather

Are you calling birds crazy! I'm offended! Ha! ha!

 

[Claudia1794]

Aren’t we all crazy in some way?

 

[TheSkaFish]

Because redheads are crazy? Or Because “red on the head, fire in the bed”. Actually that could be good or bad so...it’s all silliness anyway

I've never heard that one before

But yeah, the stereotypes never made any sense to me either. I find it hard to feel like anyone actually believes it.

 

[Claudia1794]

I've never heard that one before

But yeah, the stereotypes never made any sense to me either. I find it hard to feel like anyone actually believes it.

Oh well that one might’ve been said about me specifically...