CenotaphGirl
Under the dirt, that’s my home ⚰️
True that wouldn't be for me, however, I feel theres a space for that mindset, some women and men who cant have children even if they wanted to, should have a view... a view to see that a full life can be lived in another way.I'll answer this one in 2 parts.
First part: I have bunch of hobbies and I need a lot of "alone time" as introvert. Kids would just ruin me that part. I mean I am "dad type" and I'm good in raising kids , just not my own, cause I don't want them. Also , there is like "money issue" in my country. So that is why it is the cheapest way to live - not having kids and just date your whole life , not buying house / car /stuff. But girls wouldn't accept that. They would rather emotionally blackmail you in order to get what they want. Rarely which girl would accept "my type of relationship" here. I found like only 2 of those. But yeah , I like more " liberal carefree modern " type of relationship.
Second part: I am guy who prioritize my love partner's happiness over my own one. In last relationship I was the one who loved more, cared move, gave more. That relationship was on her terms , by her rules , and not my own. I really did care deeply about that girl. And I was the only one who "lost". I'm just that type of guy. I really do care about my love partner, ... But now I decided to stay single. I got burned out over years of dating.
I don't agree with emotionally blackmailing a man, but I dont think theres a man in the world who wouldn't give me a baby... im very persuasive... they may regret it though okay jokes aside, I find it disgusting that people manipulate others together what they want, would you consider being with someone who already has a child?
Yikes, are you a cancer? ... sound in touch with your emotions.