CenotaphGirl
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Most people know I support my brother with his various needs as he struggles to read/write and with thought processes? (not sure if theres an official term for that)
He can do things others find strange like he puts me as his display picture for almost everything he uses and then gets upset when people make comments about how I look.
It annoys the life out of me that he feels the need to do this but he's always done it and will not stop. People also find it strange and think a brother shouldn't be doing that to which I agree.
He constantly follows me around, if I go to the toilet he'll sit outside the door and describe various flags from around the world to me.
I have my own place but he also turns up there, I have a gaming room for him and he spends a lot of time in there before coming to find me.
My brother is turning 30 this year, it's exciting but also scary, I feel like I dont help him become independent, he told me he really wants a girl to settle down with,
So we've been on the hunt for a perfect woman, unlike some guys on here my brother deffo has success with the ladies however, its seems very money based.
One girl hurt his feelings by putting the items he got for her on snapchat and saying "thats all I got he's so stingy", no care what so ever if he saw that crap.
Anyway, he recently slept with a girl I consider good for only sleeping with, but she spins him lines about loving him and here we go again he thinks he is in love with someone who just wants to use him.
I guess I dont know where the rainbow stops? Where the tough love needs to begin? He's nearly 30 surely I cant support him forever, surely he needs to grow up?
It's difficult because my friends tell me I act like without me he'd die but I genuinely believe thats not far from the truth...
He can do things others find strange like he puts me as his display picture for almost everything he uses and then gets upset when people make comments about how I look.
It annoys the life out of me that he feels the need to do this but he's always done it and will not stop. People also find it strange and think a brother shouldn't be doing that to which I agree.
He constantly follows me around, if I go to the toilet he'll sit outside the door and describe various flags from around the world to me.
I have my own place but he also turns up there, I have a gaming room for him and he spends a lot of time in there before coming to find me.
My brother is turning 30 this year, it's exciting but also scary, I feel like I dont help him become independent, he told me he really wants a girl to settle down with,
So we've been on the hunt for a perfect woman, unlike some guys on here my brother deffo has success with the ladies however, its seems very money based.
One girl hurt his feelings by putting the items he got for her on snapchat and saying "thats all I got he's so stingy", no care what so ever if he saw that crap.
Anyway, he recently slept with a girl I consider good for only sleeping with, but she spins him lines about loving him and here we go again he thinks he is in love with someone who just wants to use him.
I guess I dont know where the rainbow stops? Where the tough love needs to begin? He's nearly 30 surely I cant support him forever, surely he needs to grow up?
It's difficult because my friends tell me I act like without me he'd die but I genuinely believe thats not far from the truth...