TheUnknown
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Hey everybody, hope your all doing well.
I wanted to post something here and see if I'm the only person that really struggles with this issue.
Well here it goes, I always used to be a very shy and insecure person with women. In 2008 I finally ended up on the dating scene and had a relationship for a little under a year. For about a year after that, It was like I held on the key that helped me talk to women and get them interested in me. Of course no one since would date me, but I had a few close calls. After 2009 though... all luck just stopped.
I went away for school after that and really had minimal contact with women in my time away. I graduate in a month and plan on returning home for a fresh start. I have noticed though, that every time I see a woman I'm very attracted too - I revert back into who I was before I dated.
I find myself horribly shy and just sometimes awkwardly staring at a woman, then just feeling depressed about them not being interested in me. (and how would I know that?)
Don't get me wrong, I can still talk to women but it's almost like I no longer give off that vibe that attracts them, and I start to get really nervous inside.
Is this just me? is this even normal? If anyone has been in this situation before, please tell me what you did to get out? It's a bit depressing that I'm not past problems like this - as a man.
I wanted to post something here and see if I'm the only person that really struggles with this issue.
Well here it goes, I always used to be a very shy and insecure person with women. In 2008 I finally ended up on the dating scene and had a relationship for a little under a year. For about a year after that, It was like I held on the key that helped me talk to women and get them interested in me. Of course no one since would date me, but I had a few close calls. After 2009 though... all luck just stopped.
I went away for school after that and really had minimal contact with women in my time away. I graduate in a month and plan on returning home for a fresh start. I have noticed though, that every time I see a woman I'm very attracted too - I revert back into who I was before I dated.
I find myself horribly shy and just sometimes awkwardly staring at a woman, then just feeling depressed about them not being interested in me. (and how would I know that?)
Don't get me wrong, I can still talk to women but it's almost like I no longer give off that vibe that attracts them, and I start to get really nervous inside.
Is this just me? is this even normal? If anyone has been in this situation before, please tell me what you did to get out? It's a bit depressing that I'm not past problems like this - as a man.