I have just arrived back from a first meeting which lasted all of twenty seconds and am feeling half totally worthless and half angry. We had arranged to meet at a local visitor's centre where he had offered to buy me a cup of tea and we both arrived at the same time. I approached him and asked if he was Pete (not his real name) as he was obviously looking around for someone in the way you do when meeting a stranger and because I recognised his glasses from his photo. He said that he wasn't Pete. Then he came up to me a minute later and said that he was Pete, that I didn't look like my photo and that it wouldn't work. (Other dates I have met have recognised me from my photo). I feel completely worthless because he thought I wasn't good looking enough for him (like many women, I don't have much confidence in my looks) and also very angry with him for going so much on looks in the first place and for being so abrupt. I have met some people on internet dates who I haven't liked for various reasons, but I have at least had the decency and the manners to see the meeting through. It has left me feeling really sad and down on myself.