SILLY THINGS YOU DO FOR LOVE.

[lone_cowboy]

- i bought my girlfriend a cellphone (an expensive one!) i had to eat crackers during lunch hour for 2 months so that i could buy her that cellphone in time for her b-day. when i gave it to her, after several weeks... she left me. (*****! )

 

[dea]

awww thats is really sweet.. yeah.. what a *****.. at least you got rid of her now rather than wasting anymore time with her!

is this supposed to be "what dumb things have you done for love" thread, or were u just getting that out? sorry this forum is the first time ive ever used any of these forum things.

 

[askal]

The stupidest thing I ever did...

I endured waiting for her for 4 hours just to be with her and spend time with her... and chat with her for 30 minutes (or less)... depending on how long it would take for her dad to arrive and pick her up. Did that even though I'm hungry (with no cash in my pocket)... feeling sick... doesnt matter. I waited for her for 4 hours just to talk to her for 30 minutes.

My class ended at 12 noon while hers ended at 4 pm.


I also went out of the way to help her work on a project... and its because of me that she got an A on the project!!!

lol... How did I be such an idiot.

Ok guys... point and laugh at me... for being so gullible to her crocodile tears... lol she was like... WAAAHHH my dad's gonna beat me up if I fail!!! WAAAH this is a very important project and I need to pass it!


What a ******* *****. In the end I did the math... I spent close to $5k on her. And what did I get in return? Less than 5x of blowjobs and handjobs.

lol... do the math...

$5000 (low estimate) - gifts, food, buying her this and that. Includes travel expenses, gasoline, etc...
$1000 something (low estimate) ... - unpaid "labor"... with a rate of minimum wage per hour.

God that $6000... What can $6000 have bought?

a) A good second hand car
b) A couple of flat screen TVs
c) 4 or 5 GOOD quality computers
d) 30x getting laid with high end escorts
e) More education
f) 120 weeks of grocery...
g) 1200 drinks in the bar..
h) 12 servings of drugs...
i) A motorcycle
j) Downpayment of a house
k) About 10 months of rent


lol you get the idea.

Man even up to now... I still feel embarrassed of my idiocy 3 years ago. How can I been scammed like that?!?


(*puts on a "DUNCE" cap and sits on the corner*)
Point and laugh. AHAHAHHHAHAHHAHAHAHAHAHAHA!!!

 

[justme]

From my opinnion relationships shouldn't be summed up as sexual activities or lack of it but that's just me, i'm all weird and different than most males. But I've never done anything for crushes that I didn't want to do (never been in love and not that many crushes either ) .

 

[dea]

i gave up my hopes, dreams, ambitions and life.. and now, recently, all my family, my friends, my culture, my home and everything I held dear to me .. and i dont even think its love!

 

[lone_cowboy]

The stupidest thing I ever did...  

I endured waiting for her for 4 hours just to be with her and spend time with her... and chat with her for 30 minutes (or less)... depending on how long it would take for her dad to arrive and pick her up.   Did that even though I'm hungry (with no cash in my pocket)... feeling sick... doesnt matter.  I waited for her for 4 hours just to talk to her for 30 minutes.  

My class ended at 12 noon while hers ended at 4 pm.  


I also went out of the way to help her work on a project... and its because of me that she got an A on the project!!!  

lol... How did I be such an idiot.  

Ok guys... point and laugh at me...  for being so gullible to her crocodile tears...  lol she was like... WAAAHHH my dad's gonna beat me up if I fail!!!  WAAAH this is a very important project and I need to pass it!  


What a ******* *****.  In the end I did the math...  I spent close to $5k on her.  And what did I get in return?  Less than 5x of blowjobs and handjobs.  

lol... do the math...

$5000 (low estimate) - gifts, food, buying her this and that.  Includes travel expenses, gasoline, etc...
$1000 something (low estimate) ... - unpaid "labor"... with a rate of minimum wage per hour.    

God that $6000...  What can $6000 have bought?

a)  A good second hand car
b)  A couple of flat screen TVs
c)  4 or 5 GOOD quality computers
d)  30x getting laid with high end escorts
e)  More education
f)  120 weeks of grocery...  
g)  1200 drinks in the bar..
h)  12 servings of drugs...  
i)  A motorcycle
j)  Downpayment of a house
k)  About 10 months of rent


lol you get the idea.    

Man even up to now... I still feel embarrassed of my idiocy 3 years ago.  How can I been scammed like that?!?


(*puts on a "DUNCE" cap and sits on the corner*)
Point and laugh.  AHAHAHHHAHAHHAHAHAHAHAHAHA!!!

dude, you have lots of money... wow!

 

[lonelygirl]

Askal,

You sound really bitter about this! I don't think that anyone in society is laughing and pointing at you. We do have a LOT of expressions for these kind of situations:

Love is blind
Why do fools fall in love?
Etc.

However, I think that instead of looking at a relationship as a monetary exchange, perhaps you could take it very, very slowly. Instead of buying expensive items to impress an immature girlfriend, you could, for example, have an ONLINE girlfriend. (Real girl not a cam girl). This would be an EMOTIONAL rather than physical relationship unless you both felt it necessary to move further. Part of it is TAKING IT SLOW. In other words, don't rush out to buy expensive things, etc. Or make yourself sick just for the chance to talk to a girl. Just slowly start revealing yourself to another human being.

Also, you need to clean out that bitterness and replace it with something else. If you have no self-esteem, earn some. It's not all that hard. Think of a goal that you want (a small and at least 80 percent reachable goal) and then go for it. When you reach it, you will be proud. For example, it might be something you want such as physical--to improve your appearance and strength through working out daily. It's hard to hate yourself when you are taking good care of your body through healthy eating and lifting weights. And if your skin is bad, care for it. I have plenty of good advice on that arena (Thank God I've always had good skin, but I do have ideas) and then just slowly get stronger rather than weaker and more bitter and angry.