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SophiaGrace
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Ok, since Luna has a fantastic thread in the relationships section and I don't want to bump it down, I'm going to put The Creeper Thread in the general sectoin.
I want people to tell me their stories of Creepers. You know, the guys that stand too close to you, the stalkers, the guys that JUST WONT LEAVE YOU ALONE or just the guys that give you the heebie jeebies and you really cant put a finger on why this is.. Or women....women do this too .
Have you ever been creeped out by someone?
If so, please do share your story.
I'll start with a story of mine:
So, a few days ago, I was at Walmart and I was minding my own buisness, buying stuff. I was in the pharmacy section for a little while, then I went over to the other end of the store, to get distilled water for my medical machine that I use at night.
I check out and as I am walking towards the door this guy, older guy, either in his late thirties or 40's comes up along side of me and says "I saw you in the pharmacy section, would you like to go out sometime?" As he is saying this, i'm walking and minding my own buisness, so I turn to look at him and I'm startled out of my own little world. I start feeling creeped out because I began to feel like he had been following me around the store and I'm totally alone.
I tell him "No thanks, I think I have to get home. It was nice to meet you though."
The whole time while I'm driving home I'm looking over my shoulder, very freaked out/paranoid.
Of course, having recently read article on guys with a disability fetish didn't help probably because they said that these sorts of guys just WAIT around in malls and stores to follow around women with disabilities/take pictures of them to post on their little fetish groups online. o_o
http://www.disaboom.com/sexuality-an...s-and-devotees
On Women with Disabilities and how "Devotees" see them:
http://books.google.com/books?id=yJO...0women&f=false
Opinion Article:
http://www.disthis.com/artman/publish/article_10.shtml
This part in particular creeps me out:
Where Does a Disability Fetish Come From?
There is no clear explanation for why someone develops a fetish for those with disability. The list of potential reasons for such an attraction is long. Speculations aren’t always pretty, and include:
-A lack of success with able-bodied individuals, which makes people with disabilities safer targets of affection.
-The desire for a unique partner who garners attention from onlookers.
-Sadistic tendencies, where the individual loves having power over one of perceived lower status.
-Masochistic tendencies, where one gets satisfaction via feelings of self-degeneration that are associated with having a partner who is stigmatized.
-The imprint of early childhood experiences involving strong emotions for a people with disabilities. (Parental approval for any admiration can further reinforce such.)
-The need to feel like a hero in “saving” a people with disabilities.
I want people to tell me their stories of Creepers. You know, the guys that stand too close to you, the stalkers, the guys that JUST WONT LEAVE YOU ALONE or just the guys that give you the heebie jeebies and you really cant put a finger on why this is.. Or women....women do this too .
Have you ever been creeped out by someone?
If so, please do share your story.
I'll start with a story of mine:
So, a few days ago, I was at Walmart and I was minding my own buisness, buying stuff. I was in the pharmacy section for a little while, then I went over to the other end of the store, to get distilled water for my medical machine that I use at night.
I check out and as I am walking towards the door this guy, older guy, either in his late thirties or 40's comes up along side of me and says "I saw you in the pharmacy section, would you like to go out sometime?" As he is saying this, i'm walking and minding my own buisness, so I turn to look at him and I'm startled out of my own little world. I start feeling creeped out because I began to feel like he had been following me around the store and I'm totally alone.
I tell him "No thanks, I think I have to get home. It was nice to meet you though."
The whole time while I'm driving home I'm looking over my shoulder, very freaked out/paranoid.
Of course, having recently read article on guys with a disability fetish didn't help probably because they said that these sorts of guys just WAIT around in malls and stores to follow around women with disabilities/take pictures of them to post on their little fetish groups online. o_o
http://www.disaboom.com/sexuality-an...s-and-devotees
On Women with Disabilities and how "Devotees" see them:
http://books.google.com/books?id=yJO...0women&f=false
Opinion Article:
http://www.disthis.com/artman/publish/article_10.shtml
This part in particular creeps me out:
Where Does a Disability Fetish Come From?
There is no clear explanation for why someone develops a fetish for those with disability. The list of potential reasons for such an attraction is long. Speculations aren’t always pretty, and include:
-A lack of success with able-bodied individuals, which makes people with disabilities safer targets of affection.
-The desire for a unique partner who garners attention from onlookers.
-Sadistic tendencies, where the individual loves having power over one of perceived lower status.
-Masochistic tendencies, where one gets satisfaction via feelings of self-degeneration that are associated with having a partner who is stigmatized.
-The imprint of early childhood experiences involving strong emotions for a people with disabilities. (Parental approval for any admiration can further reinforce such.)
-The need to feel like a hero in “saving” a people with disabilities.