I got a job offer in another country (100% legit ). Everything is good and dandy even my dad went there ,now today he called me and gave me some world-breaking news. He said I shouldn't go there because the job isn't hard per-say but you have to spend around 8-10 hours a day going all over the place etc and its extremely exhausting so I should focus on college.
Now there's a problem here because we pretty much settled that were doing this , we even sold the apartment ,I have to pay rent right now until I leave , we even sold the car because we don't need it there and we needed the money.
So basically I have nothing here anymore.
I feel a bit let down that my own dad thinks I can't manage this job , even if he does it as a parent to protect me but this is not the point of the thread , it's just to get it off my chest.
The problem is that I have to choose to not listen to him and still go there and yeah probably it's going to be hard at first but were humans after all , I will adapt to it eventually or try getting in a college here. The college part is also tricky because I missed the sign ups for now because I thought I'm leaving the country so I'l have to wait 3 months and then try , also my best friend is taking hes exams this week for a college in another city and if he fails he will try in another city where I also want to go, so if the gods are merciful that will happen and we can get a place together there.
I have to think about all of this until tomorrow night when my dad calls again.
So bottom line what should I choose , these are some life changing decisions so I don't want to rush into them. On one hand I want to go in another country and work with my dad because we've planned this for at least 6 months hence the sold place and car but I also want to stay here with my friends and now after what he told me I have a reason to stay here.
I'm not asking for opinions necessarily , just getting it all out and speaking my mind here.
Now there's a problem here because we pretty much settled that were doing this , we even sold the apartment ,I have to pay rent right now until I leave , we even sold the car because we don't need it there and we needed the money.
So basically I have nothing here anymore.
I feel a bit let down that my own dad thinks I can't manage this job , even if he does it as a parent to protect me but this is not the point of the thread , it's just to get it off my chest.
The problem is that I have to choose to not listen to him and still go there and yeah probably it's going to be hard at first but were humans after all , I will adapt to it eventually or try getting in a college here. The college part is also tricky because I missed the sign ups for now because I thought I'm leaving the country so I'l have to wait 3 months and then try , also my best friend is taking hes exams this week for a college in another city and if he fails he will try in another city where I also want to go, so if the gods are merciful that will happen and we can get a place together there.
I have to think about all of this until tomorrow night when my dad calls again.
So bottom line what should I choose , these are some life changing decisions so I don't want to rush into them. On one hand I want to go in another country and work with my dad because we've planned this for at least 6 months hence the sold place and car but I also want to stay here with my friends and now after what he told me I have a reason to stay here.
I'm not asking for opinions necessarily , just getting it all out and speaking my mind here.
