Ryan203
Member
- Joined
- Dec 20, 2011
- Messages
- 15
- Reaction score
- 0
Everyone would have heard the quote "Wise men speak when they have something to say, and fools speak when they have to say something."
I've given deep thoughts to this, and found that I usually speak in both conditions, when I've something important to speak, or when I just have to speak something, because I've been quiet for a long time and the other person(s) is/are only speaking.
When in group, I usually speak very less, when there's something going of my interest (maybe this is one of the reasons I'm known as someone who can be relied on and always gives correct information with no pranks or jokes). But when I'm in one-to-one conversation, I just have to speak something. Otherwise I'd look stupid, or the other person might wonder that why this person doesn't speaks anything and look away (like when you're meeting someone for the first time).
I usually just say "hmmm", or give a smile, but that sure would seem really weird to the other person, I know. I just can't figure what should I do.
I wanna be a person that I have in my mind....someone who doesn't speaks much, stays quiet...speaks only very useful information. But is this even ok?
I've given deep thoughts to this, and found that I usually speak in both conditions, when I've something important to speak, or when I just have to speak something, because I've been quiet for a long time and the other person(s) is/are only speaking.
When in group, I usually speak very less, when there's something going of my interest (maybe this is one of the reasons I'm known as someone who can be relied on and always gives correct information with no pranks or jokes). But when I'm in one-to-one conversation, I just have to speak something. Otherwise I'd look stupid, or the other person might wonder that why this person doesn't speaks anything and look away (like when you're meeting someone for the first time).
I usually just say "hmmm", or give a smile, but that sure would seem really weird to the other person, I know. I just can't figure what should I do.
I wanna be a person that I have in my mind....someone who doesn't speaks much, stays quiet...speaks only very useful information. But is this even ok?