When You Send a message to people on dating sites, do you prefer they ignore you or..

[TheRealCallie]

You don't control how people reply, only how you react.

Word

10 of them

 

[AmytheTemperamental]

No love for the comma.

 

[TheRealCallie]

I didn't mention your period either

 

[Restless soul]

Lol. Another reply from a woman.

" sorry it makes it hard for me to engage you since you are not smiling in your photos " something like that....what!!!

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Give me a break will you!!

 

[AmytheTemperamental]

Well, they could feel how I feel. It's hard to engage with you because you don't really listen to begin with.

 

[Restless soul]

Yeah, but it's damned if they do, damned if they don't with you.  They ignore you, you hate it, they don't ignore you, you hate it.  Btw, when am I getting a pic?  

No. If they ignore me for weeks and never get a reply or have success it's demoralizing. And when they reply with silly condescending remarks. And brush offs like I just told you about. Then yes. Very annoying

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Well, they could feel how I feel. It's hard to engage with you because you don't really listen to begin with.

Elaborate right now. I don't listen to what?
I do. Sure do

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Hahah...all I get is abuse..whipping boy. A masochist.

 

[TheRealCallie]

Anything can be demoralizing, if you allow it to be.

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There's a difference between hearing/reading and LISTENING. You don't do great in the listening department.

 

[Restless soul]

Anything can be demoralizing, if you allow it to be.

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There's a difference between hearing/reading and LISTENING.  You don't do great in the listening department.

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I do. Just very weak man. And vulnerable man. Paper skin
So I freak easy. As you must know. So I post similar things 
For confirmation. Reassurance. Support. That is really why

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Very weak..sad to go through life like this.
I am not posting here to be annoying. Trust me.

 

[Xpendable]

I would prefer to be messaged first. But in that case, why would you match me if you won't be interested in what I say? What were you expectying anyway?

Just because a person seems interesting on a profile doesn't mean they will be interesting when they speak.  Also, can't tell if someone is an ******* or something from a profile.  Get the point?  I could think up more reasons if it's needed.

I'm neither an ******* or even something. Besides, I am doing all the talking and they are like uhh... ok...
You know, It's two-way street. Also, I don't think they match me because I look interesting (whatever that means), probably just consider I look decent enough, but then they weren't blown away by my above average communication skills.

 

[TheRealCallie]

Or maybe your "above average communication skills" were just boring them....

 

[Xpendable]

Or maybe your "above average communication skills" were just boring them....

Maybe, but then what wouldn't bore them?

 

[TheRealCallie]

Or maybe your "above average communication skills" were just boring them....

Maybe, but then what wouldn't bore them?

There's also a chance that they aren't interested in conceited guys who insult them.....

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Most people (not just girls) don't like being talked down to....

 

[Xpendable]

Or maybe your "above average communication skills" were just boring them....

Maybe, but then what wouldn't bore them?

There's also a chance that they aren't interested in conceited guys who insult them.....

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Most people (not just girls) don't like being talked down to....

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Wow, really? You are this dishonest now?
I'm glad people with a brain can scroll up and see how delusional you are. You liar.

 

[TheRealCallie]

Do tell what you are going on about now. Your superior communication skills are making my head hurt. lol

 

[AmytheTemperamental]

Requesting closure.

 

[Restless soul]

What did I miss?

 

[TheRealCallie]

What did I miss?

The same thing I did, apparently.

 

[AmytheTemperamental]

What did I miss?

The same thing I did, apparently.

*points to bullseye on her forehead*

 

[Paraiyar]

Or maybe your "above average communication skills" were just boring them....

Maybe, but then what wouldn't bore them?

There's also a chance that they aren't interested in conceited guys who insult them.....

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Most people (not just girls) don't like being talked down to....

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Wow, really? You are this dishonest now?
I'm glad people with a brain can scroll up and see how delusional you are. You liar.

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[EveWasFramed]

Or maybe your "above average communication skills" were just boring them....

Maybe, but then what wouldn't bore them?

There's also a chance that they aren't interested in conceited guys who insult them.....

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Most people (not just girls) don't like being talked down to....

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Wow, really? You are this dishonest now?
I'm glad people with a brain can scroll up and see how delusional you are. You liar.

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