Questions for the Men

[user 139760]

Okay! Lads... I ran out of questions but I'm back... so... imagine you are on a date, its a blind date set up by god knows who...

She's your type personality wise and looks wise BUT she keeps mispronouncing words.... (a lottt of words )

Do you...

A) Correct her, you're only trying to help
B) Let her continue, you know what she means anyway
C) Correct her once, then let it go
D) Other? If so... what?

Also, bonus question! Would that put you off having a second date, if everything else went... swimmingly? lolz

D) Make fun of her.
Ask her if she's drunk, ask her if she wants to buy a vowel, "should I get as high as you are so we can understand each other", etc. etc.

Little wonder I'm single.

 

[Rohini]

Ask her if she's drunk, ask her if she wants to buy a vowel,

thanks for the laugh.

 

[user 139760]

thanks for the laugh.

.....it wasn't a joke, I really do that

 

[Rohini]

.....it wasn't a joke, I really do that

That makes it even funnier.

 

[howdidifindmyselfhere?]

Okay! Lads... I ran out of questions but I'm back... so... imagine you are on a date, its a blind date set up by god knows who...

She's your type personality wise and looks wise BUT she keeps mispronouncing words.... (a lottt of words )

Do you...

A) Correct her, you're only trying to help
B) Let her continue, you know what she means anyway
C) Correct her once, then let it go
D) Other? If so... what?

Also, bonus question! Would that put you off having a second date, if everything else went... swimmingly? lolz

Hang on a minute, my response is coming, I'm still imagining that I am on a date..........

Ok, If I was on a date, and she was my type personality wise and looks wise but kept mispronouncing words, it would not bother me. I used to have a slight speech impediment growing up and still slightly do with some words. I don't think that it something that I would raise on a first date, it could just be nerves, it could just be who they are, so why would I go pointing out something that they could be insecure about? I have way to many things that I am insecure about and it would be horrible if these were pointed out to me, (especially on a first date). No, it certainly wouldn't put me off a second date.

 

[howdidifindmyselfhere?]

As a man… if you hated a woman you had a previous relationship with…. thought she was toxic and abusive… why would you keep asking her to come back to you? Why would you constantly ask her if she is seeing anyone? Why would you crave her? Why would you dump rebound after rebound just to have her again? Why would you stay with her whenever she cant find anyone else to keep her company and drive her anywhere she asks? Why would you plan kids with her? Why would you wanna marry her? Be truthful… do you think that would mean you dont actually think she is toxic, could that mean you dont actually hate her?

I know that I am late to the party on this one, but can I flip the question slightly please?

Why as a woman, if a man was treating you in this way would you allow them to keep you company when you have no-one else too? Why would you take him back rebound after rebound? Why would you be asking him to drive you places? Why would you entertain the the idea of having kids with him, and by the sounds of things be talking of marriage?

I guess attraction is attraction and we are just drawn to someone for whatever reason, no matter how they treat us. The heart wants what it wants. I could never work out myself why this lady I used to work with came in hiding the bruises from her other half, yet seemed to stay for more.

 

[CenotaphGirl]

Hang on a minute, my response is coming, I'm still imagining that I am on a date..........

Ok, If I was on a date, and she was my type personality wise and looks wise but kept mispronouncing words, it would not bother me. I used to have a slight speech impediment growing up and still slightly do with some words. I don't think that it something that I would raise on a first date, it could just be nerves, it could just be who they are, so why would I go pointing out something that they could be insecure about? I have way to many things that I am insecure about and it would be horrible if these were pointed out to me, (especially on a first date). No, it certainly wouldn't put me off a second date.

Loool awh, been that long? and yeah! I have a slight stutter would make me feel so low about myself if that kept coming up.

I know that I am late to the party on this one, but can I flip the question slightly please?

Why as a woman, if a man was treating you in this way would you allow them to keep you company when you have no-one else too? Why would you take him back rebound after rebound? Why would you be asking him to drive you places? Why would you entertain the the idea of having kids with him, and by the sounds of things be talking of marriage?

I guess attraction is attraction and we are just drawn to someone for whatever reason, no matter how they treat us. The heart wants what it wants. I could never work out myself why this lady I used to work with came in hiding the bruises from her other half, yet seemed to stay for more.

Welcome to the partyyyy and I guess because I have no one and nothing else, I wanted to believe he loved me, would make me a wife and a mother. Also, his family are like the family I never had, that can be hard to let go. I believe in making it work and that relationships take sacrifice as well as love and stuff. I have never said I hated him, but he apparently hates me... just has a weird way of showing it lol

 

[Cherubino]

I don't care she mispronounces words but in bed she must avoid those words ... so I hope they are not sex related terms ... it can create confusion between suck, f***, cock, dick, prick, lick ... you name it

 

[CenotaphGirl]

I don't care she mispronounces words but in bed she must avoid those words ... so I hope they are not sex related terms ... it can create confusion between suck, f***, cock, dick, prick, lick ... you name it

You are a special type of mannnn lmaooo I'm dead.

 

[Cherubino]

I know, right? ... "did you say cock me or suck me" ... "your dick or your prick"

 

[Rohini]

I gotta question for the dudes.

Would you rather your significant other talk too much or too little? no middle ground... if you're forced to pick. pick one.

 

[TheSkaFish]

I guess too much. I could always politely decline and say that I'm not in a talking mood at the moment, or just don't have the energy.

Too little would start to make me worry that they don't really like me anymore, or never did in the first place. It might start to feel cold.

 

[howdidifindmyselfhere?]

I gotta question for the dudes.

Would you rather your significant other talk too much or too little? no middle ground... if you're forced to pick. pick one.

Right, so I myself have always been a pretty quiet person and I don't really talk a lot, (especially in a group of people). I am therefore thinking that maybe I should really be with someone the opposite of myself, someone that talked a lot, maybe that would help me engage in conversation, otherwise there would be hardly any conversation between us, which can't be good for any relationship.

 

[NoxApex(N/A)]

I gotta question for the dudes.

Would you rather your significant other talk too much or too little? no middle ground... if you're forced to pick. pick one.

I'd rather her talk too much.
The consequences IMO are much higher if she doesn't talk enough.
And I don't really talk much until I get to know someone.

I think WHEN is the key factor.
Don't talk when I'm watching a movie or tv show, and don't wake me up at 3:00 A.M. to talk to me about something in that movie or tv show.


Otherwise, I don't really care.

 

[Rohini]

Right, so I myself have always been a pretty quiet person and I don't really talk a lot, (especially in a group of people). I am therefore thinking that maybe I should really be with someone the opposite of myself, someone that talked a lot, maybe that would help me engage in conversation, otherwise there would be hardly any conversation between us, which can't be good for any relationship.

Opposites always attract! I agree with what you said

I think it creates a nice balance when one talks more than the other.. and as you said, would help bring the other out of their quiet shell

 

[user 188685]

Question for the guys
Do you like a first date kiss?How soon is too soon for you to kiss?

 

[randomguy]

Question for the guys
Do you like a first date kiss?How soon is too soon for you to kiss?

I don't think there is a right time, as long as the kiss is spontaneous it's all good. 100% never kiss anyone before you've brushed your teeth in the morning though.

 

[user 188685]

I don't think there is a right time, as long as the kiss is spontaneous it's all good. 100% never kiss anyone before you've brushed your teeth in the morning though.

Yep,true that

 

[howdidifindmyselfhere?]

Question for the guys
Do you like a first date kiss?How soon is too soon for you to kiss?

Wow, this is turning out to be a bit of a thought prevoking evening..... Sadly, I can't say whether I like it or dislike it as I've never been in that position. That's a big scary step for me personally and probably needs a forum post of its own.

However, that said, would it not depend upon how intermit the kiss was? Going full on on a first date might just be a bit much, but a little bit of affection might give you an understanding of your/their feelings.

 

[MrLonely86]

I gotta question for the dudes.

Would you rather your significant other talk too much or too little? no middle ground... if you're forced to pick. pick one.

Too little, I like quiet and straight to the point girls and conversations.