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Thought I'd do something "nice" for my wife, who I've known for three years now. With our infant, it's hard to have a lot of time together or do anything fun together these days, so thought this would be a nice deviation from that. My wife and I are in an interracial marriage. I wrote out the...

Wow, so many pretty people in this thread!

I don't see why this thread should be closed.

Canadian eh! PM me if anyone would like to chat. :)

Why wouldn't I? PS: Already did.

Yeah let us know! Good luck!

On second thought, who am I kidding? Lol. Close to four years and I've still never told her lest our friendship be lost. I'm the worst person you could possibly take advice from, haha.

Yeah, one of those cases where you can either be friends or more, but not both. I know.

A brother? Uh oh. :( Don't say "hypothetically", just ask her directly, if you're absolutely sure that's what you want. If she says no and you can't take it, well, you'll have to move on, even if it means by stopping talking to her. Sorry man, it sucks to be in your shoes. Wish you all the best.

I'm a guy and I'm not homophobic. Heterosexual, yes, but not homophobic. What does that make me? A non-guy?

Ugh, I'm pretty incorrigible aren't I? Lol.

Congratulations, brought a smile to my face. Good luck. :)

Hey Lily, I can identify with a lot of what you've said. It's hard meeting people beyond university as you transition into professional life. You sound like an interesting person, so I don't really see why guys wouldn't be interested in you. I too sometimes think of moving away from all of this...

Right. And then be alone all your life because no woman wants to be with you.

Snow, know that you're not alone. I know, it's probably of very little consolation.

Congratulations! Hope things work out for you two. :)

Thanks for your response. I did ask her if she wanted to "be my girlfriend" and she mentioned that while she didn't want to put a label on it right away, that I shouldn't take it the wrong way and that there wasn't any reason for me to think she wouldn't want to be. She just wanted to let things...

Please feel free to yell at me, give me a smack on the head and/or knock some sense into me if I'm out of line. This is probably going to be a bit of a rant, but I'd also love some feedback. I'm a bit depressed and stressed about a relatively new relationship I've been a part of for a little...

I'll be honest in my response and say that if I were to date someone who is 24 and never had a relationship before, it wouldn't be weird and I wouldn't think she isn't worth dating.

That was nice of you. With most girls, I don't feel wanted after a while.