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Oh god is that ever perfect. I've been that guy all too often.

What are the major things girls judge when it comes to appearance? Also, what are some things that will turn you off? I'm unshaven a lot and I think this may be turning off some girls as I have seen quite a few girls voice that they prefer when a guy is shaved. I just want to feel better...

Rather self-explanatory thread. If one ever wishes to have sex or have a relationship must they seek one? Is it possible that a relationship or sexual experience presents itself to you if you were not looking for one?

I see most films with my best friends, but there are some that I know he wouldn't be into an I would, so I see those alone. I actually really enjoy seeing films alone, some people don't seem to appreciate the movie experience properly and if they tag along they can really ruin seeing a film. I...

Music, food, and getting out. It sounds counter intuitive to want to be outside doings stuff alone in order to forget that you're lonely, but I find staying inside couped up alone makes things a lot worse.

Overbearing father that left me afraid of being around people, speaking my mind and being myself. Being conventionally ugly - buck teeth, acne, out of shape, bad hair, etc.

Never going to get a girlfriend, never going to have sex, never going to experience an intimate relationship and I don't care. I stopped caring and just accepted the hand I've been dealt. It actually feels good, liberating in a way.

Acne sufferer since the age of 14. I've been on Accutane (a rather heavy duty drug) on two separate occasions, the second one I incurred a rare side effect that caused some serious problems that make me even more self-conscious. It's also not like the acne is on a face that would look good if...

Also it's not the rejection itself that's the problem it's the fear of it.

I don't want to undermine what you're suggesting, but what I am saying is that while I can intellectualize that taking the risk is better than not taking the risk I can't do it. I can not do it. I know it sounds strange, but I can't. It's like if we were both sitting at a table and on this...

The question is a little broad. My life has gone pretty well I guess. I'm smart, I'm healthy, I have a job and am getting higher learning. But none of these things fill the emptiness that accompanies my lack of real relationships with people. I still have low self-esteem, lack the friends I want...

Obviously The Smiths as Mozz is the quintessential lonely guy. But I also like to listen to Yo La Tengo, Sun Kil Moon, Elvis Costello, Sonic Youth, and Pavement to name a few. Also as someone mentioned Elliott Smith and Boards of Canada, they are great too.

Single and will remain that way until I become half. As in half of my head splattered against my wall.

Title should read "anyone"... At this point I don't think I'll ever have the courage to ask a girl out to anything ever. I would have done so by now if I was able to. I've been very interested in certain girls, but it doesn't make a difference, I can not do anything about it. I've heard the...

Saturday night, the city will be jammed with young hip attractive people. The girls will be dressed to kill. I had decided earlier in the day I wasn't going to go out, even though, to be honest, I wanted to. But what's the point? When I get there I always just want to go home. I walked round...

Alright, then my problem is with myself and my inability to see myself in an intimate relationship....

The problem is that I'm sure every guy on this forum can read this thread and intellectualize it, telling themselves "yeah, that's what I have to do". I mean, no offense, but I'm sure most of us have heard all of this before and we all realize you're right, but it is the matter of doing it that...

But, I can not see anyone enjoying my face or body in an intimate manor. People might suggest that I should give people more credit and not everyone is shallow. But, I think that's bullshit. I know that when I see someone particularly ugly I tell myself that I wouldn't do anything intimate with...

Alcohol: Though it's the only one drug (and yes, I consider it one) that I'm going to list that is legal to do recreational, it is by far the one that has brought me the worst experiences. Being shy I tend to drink to get drunk rather then actually liking the taste of any alcohol, except for...