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Zorg

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Saturday night, the city will be jammed with young hip attractive people. The girls will be dressed to kill.

I had decided earlier in the day I wasn't going to go out, even though, to be honest, I wanted to. But what's the point? When I get there I always just want to go home.

I walked round to a friend and he said maybe we'll go out to Bondi Nite Club, I instantly agreed, but after half an hour of um-ing and ah-ing he changed his mind and decided to stay in.

All I wanted to do was go out and meet someone, anyone, any girl, the first girl to chat me up. Just someone, some girl, someone to fill a void inside me temporarily.

I stayed in like a loser.
 
Nah.You are not a loser at all.Let friends know that you are available or talk to them about "What are they doing in the morning/afternoon/night?".Get into their activities.
 
Your not a loser cos you stayed in on a saturday night. That crazy talk man.

OK going out on a saturday means so much to you then you should try and make planes in the week to go out.

I have had one to many weekends alone. Now days I don't mind so much.

If your friend could not be bothered to go out then maybe you should had just chill with him playing a game or something. I mean I don't fancy going clubbing at all now days but it doesnt mean I don't like a bit of company at the weekend or at any time acctroly.

Anyway don't be to hard on your self. Try and learn to chilzz :)
 
Zorg said:
Saturday night, the city will be jammed with young hip attractive people. The girls will be dressed to kill.

I had decided earlier in the day I wasn't going to go out, even though, to be honest, I wanted to. But what's the point? When I get there I always just want to go home.

I walked round to a friend and he said maybe we'll go out to Bondi Nite Club, I instantly agreed, but after half an hour of um-ing and ah-ing he changed his mind and decided to stay in.

All I wanted to do was go out and meet someone, anyone, any girl, the first girl to chat me up. Just someone, some girl, someone to fill a void inside me temporarily.

I stayed in like a loser.

Sounds like your looking for someone to tag along with ya so you don't have to be alone going to a social place. If you have some other friends, try convincing them to go. If folks from your job are cool, ask them if there's anything happening. I hope things get better for you. As for me, I don't tend to go because I get bored at those kinds of places, even with friends. The women are beautiful and my chances are close to zip. The only girl I can talk to is the bartender.
 

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