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well im practically in the same position as you. never had a relationship or met a girl that i loved, everyone says im good with communicating with girls, but I always get stuck in the friendzone. but what i did do differently from you i think was that i messed around a bit / experimented. girls...

Anybody on this site? if you are have you ever got anything from the redemption date ? and for those who don't know its a site where you answer a daily question for points and you can use those points to get prizes. if you want an invite pm me your email.

i agree with your statement. well you think i should call her again ? like i gave her a call once and she said she would get back to me on the date. Should i keep chasing her (since im sure some girls love the chase) or give her space? Like i feel if she really wanted to she would call me back...

don't worry bout complaining man. i've only been on this site for a bit and i feel like venting my frustrations has helped me alot. anyways...on to the topic. i really can relate to you man. I haven't been in a serious relationship in my entire life and its all i can think about. I've been at...

yea the two way street is so true. thats why i kinda gave up because i was the one who was starting the conversation and asking the questions. She did open up eventually, but i was still the one who had to start it. So i kinda feel like the best thing to do is to forget about her til we cross...

you are right about assumptions. after studying psychology ppl tend to evaluate things and assume ppl's actions are based on internal factors rather than external factors. I would text her back. but when she said that she would text me back for coffee...would that be the wisest thing to do cuz i...

soooo. it didn't work out. someone PLEASE help me understand this. so i asked her to coffee thru texting. and her first reply was...""just wondering would you be down..." sorry i didnt get the rest"....so i asked her again and she said yes. So my buddy before hand tells me that her text msging...

like 19? my first kiss was when i was 17. It meant the world to me and it pulled me towards her like a magnet....but after i realized that our relationships to her was more like a fling....i learned to detach myself from the feelings that would naturally come with kissing someone. Now i can kiss...

congrats. i can't imagine how great it must feel to have that someone or to actually find them, but im glad that you got you're chance. Not to sound like a buzzkill, but its not always the case. I have quite an active social life, but i can never find the right person. I'm pretty sure sometimes...

thanks for the suggestions guys. but during the texts im not 100% sure if shes interested or just replying cuz shes nice. like we've been texting for a week so i guess thats a good sign right? what I worry about is her saying no and me having to move on. Or it ending up awkward because she...

So i met this girl at a bar after a friend introduced us. Got her number and been texted her for about a week or so. I want to ask her out but I never see her around. So i think i'd be weird to straight up ask her out without seeing her after that time. My friends tell me to take my time and ask...

lol this horse chasing a carrot on a stick is how i've seen love all my life unforunately. Good example. But still its hard to work on that. I think about finding love and what it will be like in the future. I can't help it...it just pops in my mind. Any suggestions to help me move on ? lol

honestly man. don't let the fact that a 17 year olds are in relationships while you aint. I use to think like that, but i began to realize these people were at the right place at the right time. The girl i currently like is dating a balding loser, which amazes me. But that's life. I never had a...

lol badjedidude. yea i honestly see couples together and i think to myself....what does that person have that I don't. i see couples together all the time....(well i guess you notice things mroe when you want them)....i always think to myself that I deserve much better and knowing the person I...

man I am currently experiencing the same thing you are and its tough. The only thing you can do is move on and look for someone else and be thankful for having her as a friend at least. Isn't quite ironic how sometimes that special girl seems to slip away and always find someone else ? or how...

I feel like im in the same position as you. Everyday I wish there was someone there. In times of frustration i wish i had someone there to hold in my arms and make the world around me drift away. As sad as it is, there is nothing in my power that I can do to make someone special magically...

well don't place all the guys in the same category. Some guys are able to be the bigger person and admit to their mistakes. If they just use excuses i think they're just not mature.

well honestly, ive been where you were. Like confidence comes from experience, but you should at least believe that you can muster up the guts to ask her out. I pretty much had this girl that I liked and because she was teh only girl in my life, i didn't want to ruin what we had and loser her by...

i feel like I don't ask for much. Like all i need is someone that can make me happy at the end of the day and make me feel like my life is better than what it is. But i can't help the fact that looks play a part in what I want in a girl.

sorry for the late reply, but i've been busy with life lately. thank you all for your replies though. I know that you don't need a relationship to be happy, but i cant seem to let go of the fact that there is something better out there or the fact that I could be much happier than i really am or...