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Another rude craigslist reply -Well you guys ne the judge
#31
But they're so similar 😆
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#32
(11-08-2016, 03:04 PM)sothatwasmylife Wrote: But they're so similar 😆

How do you figure that, buddy??
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#33
(11-09-2016, 01:04 AM)Restless soul Wrote:
(11-08-2016, 03:04 PM)sothatwasmylife Wrote: But they're so similar 😆

How do you figure that, buddy??

Don't let it get to you.  He's just using this as another opportunity to make fun of people.
DISCLAIMER:
The views I express are my own opinion. More often than not, if I say "you," it is generalized and not to a person specifically.

My advice is based on my own experiences and those of my friends and family. I may not have a degree saying I read a bunch of books/passed tests, but I have been through a lot and helped others through a lot. Experience is often a better qualification than having read books/passed tests.

I speak in a blunt manner. I mean no disrespect and I'm not being rude. This is just the way I am, please do not take offense.

Take what you like and leave the rest.


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#34
(11-09-2016, 01:06 AM)TheRealCallie Wrote:
(11-09-2016, 01:04 AM)Restless soul Wrote:
(11-08-2016, 03:04 PM)sothatwasmylife Wrote: But they're so similar 😆

How do you figure that, buddy??

Don't let it get to you.  He's just using this as another opportunity to make fun of people.

He is just messing with me i assume?

But i have no issue with him.
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#35
(11-08-2016, 03:04 PM)sothatwasmylife Wrote: But they're so similar 😆

Knock it off, please.


As for the OP, she could have not said that, sure, but at least she told you what she thought. And perhaps others may think it too, but never say. Do you think you looked scary in the picture? Perhaps you can look at it again, and realize what she's saying. A smile can go a long way. I've been told I looked mad or angry when in fact I was feeling quite neutral. So a smile can brighten how you appear to people.
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#36
(11-09-2016, 02:21 AM)VanillaCreme Wrote:
(11-08-2016, 03:04 PM)sothatwasmylife Wrote: But they're so similar 😆

Knock it off, please.


As for the OP, she could have not said that, sure, but at least she told you what she thought. And perhaps others may think it too, but never say. Do you think you looked scary in the picture? Perhaps you can look at it again, and realize what she's saying. A smile can go a long way. I've been told I looked mad or angry when in fact I was feeling quite neutral. So a smile can brighten how you appear to people.

No I did not look scary. Maybe too serious. 
But for someone who doesnt know you it sounds very condescending, judgemental.  Saying scary. Or even mean and angry.  

Why be negative and and overly opinionated with someone you don't know. Shows bad character. If an overweight woman sent me her photo would I make it my business to tell her to lose weight? I wouldn't even go that far. I would never tell anyone that sent me  a photo they look scary. Because that would make me look like a  prick. Goes to show you what type of people are out there.
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#37
Like I said before. People are just indelicate today in thier way of communicating.
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#38
(11-09-2016, 02:53 AM)Restless soul Wrote: Why be negative and and overly opinionated with someone you don't know. Shows bad character. If an overweight woman sent me her photo would I make it my business to tell her to lose weight? I wouldn't even go that far. I would never tell anyone that sent me  a photo they look scary. Because that would make me look like a  prick. Goes to show you what type of people are out there.

Yeah, I don't know why. She had her reasons though. Perhaps she didn't think it was mean to say. Don't let it get to you though. I wouldn't take it personally. Maybe you can smile in future pictures to combat thoughts like that.
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#39
Thanks vanilla
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#40
Instead of seeing it as rude, why not just look at it as constructive criticism? I mean, let's be honest, there are some scary people that go to craigslist, so maybe she was just telling you you need to smile a little more so you don't come off the wrong way on there.
DISCLAIMER:
The views I express are my own opinion. More often than not, if I say "you," it is generalized and not to a person specifically.

My advice is based on my own experiences and those of my friends and family. I may not have a degree saying I read a bunch of books/passed tests, but I have been through a lot and helped others through a lot. Experience is often a better qualification than having read books/passed tests.

I speak in a blunt manner. I mean no disrespect and I'm not being rude. This is just the way I am, please do not take offense.

Take what you like and leave the rest.


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