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As some of you may know. There is a lot of talk on the internet and on this forum that men, from western societies such as America and the UK, Struggle with finding a partner here due to some of the things they complain of being feminist, demanding women etc.
Well, I'm here to debunk what is simply just a 'deluded myth'.
Having had many conversation with my female friend, Meenakshi in India and a few others from what thee men refer to as 'Eastern cultured women', she explained to me that even women there displayed the negative attributes of some of these 'western women' these men on the internet complained about.
These men seem to think that 'nice women are exclusive to India, south east Asia and developing countries. That simply is not the case.
Look at the women of the Philippines and Thailand? it's a known fact that there is sex tourism in these 2 countries and that it is very rampant. Surely, it contradicts the very myth that these women are anything like the 'so called women' that they have problems with in the UK/US.
The point I'm trying to make is that ANY country, no matter if it's of eastern or western philosophy and societal value, Has its share of different women. Its truly implausible and unrealistic to think that women from another country are nothing like some of the bad women that these men claim to meet and have experiences here or in America.
Sadly, I was also one of the 'deluded few who thought this way and I have no problem admitting that because, I'm human. I make errors of judgement and also, because I believe in integrity and honesty. I also want to apologize for that.
Thankfully, I have awoken over the past 6 months and I see how flawed and very destructive that this logic of thinking is. I can only move forward and onto a more 'open state of mind'.
Women aren't any different from country to country. You meet good ones and unfortunate as it is, you meet bad ones. Always a bad apple or two in a bunch. The same can be said with us men too! This isn't just relegated to some women!
I want to encourage any men on this forum to look around you and to not et caught up in this destructive pattern of behaviour against women. If you do, you will damage your reputation with yourself, others and will miss 'golden oppurtunities' to meeting good women 'closer to home'.
I'm not a 'Mangina' or a 'white knight'. Just I think of myself as an honest, realist.
In the end, as leaningintothemuse said below, 'women are people' just like you me and everyone in the world. We all have different expectations and attitudes. Also, as he stated, it is 'depending on the environment that they grew up in' whether that being certain family values, morals etc.
* This post has just been edited due to a crazy time in writing it and also to correct and include anything I may have missed out
Well, I'm here to debunk what is simply just a 'deluded myth'.
Having had many conversation with my female friend, Meenakshi in India and a few others from what thee men refer to as 'Eastern cultured women', she explained to me that even women there displayed the negative attributes of some of these 'western women' these men on the internet complained about.
These men seem to think that 'nice women are exclusive to India, south east Asia and developing countries. That simply is not the case.
Look at the women of the Philippines and Thailand? it's a known fact that there is sex tourism in these 2 countries and that it is very rampant. Surely, it contradicts the very myth that these women are anything like the 'so called women' that they have problems with in the UK/US.
The point I'm trying to make is that ANY country, no matter if it's of eastern or western philosophy and societal value, Has its share of different women. Its truly implausible and unrealistic to think that women from another country are nothing like some of the bad women that these men claim to meet and have experiences here or in America.
Sadly, I was also one of the 'deluded few who thought this way and I have no problem admitting that because, I'm human. I make errors of judgement and also, because I believe in integrity and honesty. I also want to apologize for that.
Thankfully, I have awoken over the past 6 months and I see how flawed and very destructive that this logic of thinking is. I can only move forward and onto a more 'open state of mind'.
Women aren't any different from country to country. You meet good ones and unfortunate as it is, you meet bad ones. Always a bad apple or two in a bunch. The same can be said with us men too! This isn't just relegated to some women!
I want to encourage any men on this forum to look around you and to not et caught up in this destructive pattern of behaviour against women. If you do, you will damage your reputation with yourself, others and will miss 'golden oppurtunities' to meeting good women 'closer to home'.
I'm not a 'Mangina' or a 'white knight'. Just I think of myself as an honest, realist.
In the end, as leaningintothemuse said below, 'women are people' just like you me and everyone in the world. We all have different expectations and attitudes. Also, as he stated, it is 'depending on the environment that they grew up in' whether that being certain family values, morals etc.
* This post has just been edited due to a crazy time in writing it and also to correct and include anything I may have missed out