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Unsigned is not a celebrity and doesn't have a world wide fan base, so it's a different situation.
OK, this thread is going way off course, so I'll try to clarify.
- I only responded about my very rare experiences in cold approaching girls because the other guy seemed to imply I was "bullshirting" him.
- I also only did it the times I was drinking with a bunch of guys and they urged me to do it. I don't do this on my own. In fact, I never even "flirt". It's just not something I do.
- Yes, I know I am not a celebrity. That's why I have always stuck to pay for play, even when I was young, to be with the type of girls I find attractive. I am nothing if not self aware.
- Yes, I am on Seeking (the Sugar Daddy site). I've had an account there for years. But TBH, it's too much work. Even there you really have to talk the girls up. I am not a charmer. Escort services are much easier for someone like me. It's just that they don't help at all in the loneliness department.
 
Brad Pitt is famous, he has more options, simply because the entire world knows who he is. People flock to celebrities. Unsigned is not a celebrity and doesn't have a world wide fan base, so it's a different situation.

That's one reason people find it "gross," but definitely not the only one, there are so many factors involved in a situation like that. And there's a reason I put gross in quotations.

Plenty would have a problem a man his age on paper, certainly, but how people perceive age (subconsciously) is still largely to do with appearances. If this 58 year old approached younger women I doubt he'd be getting ick reactions even if they didn't want to go there.

At least, this is what I tell myself :cautious: Chuando Tan is my cope....
 
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OK, this thread is going way off course, so I'll try to clarify.
- I only responded about my very rare experiences in cold approaching girls because the other guy seemed to imply I was "bullshirting" him.
I suddenly desire to have a T-Shirt with a bull on it, now. And on the odd chance anyone compliments me on my shirt, I can say: "Thnx, I'm glad you like my bullshirt!"

😏

...and the fuc*in' market is cornered already, once again... Back to the imaginary drawing board... :confused:
 

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