ardour
Well known loser
So what about it, for 30+ virgin guys, have you ever considered pharmaceuticals or natural equivalents to reduce or completely suppress the sex drive? It has to have occurred to most of us.
What if any are the options (I would rather not surf the net about this)
Our sexual interest serves absolutely no purpose at this stage. It's a source of anxiety, unfulfilled desire, heartache, attachment, and since we are repulsive there's no reason for it.
On one hand there could be physical side-effects - suppress testosterone for long enough who knows what will happen. Plus if it gets around people might think you're some fiendish pervert who couldn't control himself.
On the other...freedom from anxiety and warped behaviour around women you would otherwise be attracted to would be a big plus. Platonic relationships with women can develop without desire driving it. You would be content being you, no longer willing to change or accept being treated badly for the prospect of physical intimacy. If something more than friendship should develop, which let's be honest is far more likely to be genuine when sex is taken out of the equation, you can go off the meds.
What if any are the options (I would rather not surf the net about this)
Our sexual interest serves absolutely no purpose at this stage. It's a source of anxiety, unfulfilled desire, heartache, attachment, and since we are repulsive there's no reason for it.
On one hand there could be physical side-effects - suppress testosterone for long enough who knows what will happen. Plus if it gets around people might think you're some fiendish pervert who couldn't control himself.
On the other...freedom from anxiety and warped behaviour around women you would otherwise be attracted to would be a big plus. Platonic relationships with women can develop without desire driving it. You would be content being you, no longer willing to change or accept being treated badly for the prospect of physical intimacy. If something more than friendship should develop, which let's be honest is far more likely to be genuine when sex is taken out of the equation, you can go off the meds.