the Problem of Sex w/o Commitment

[CenotaphGirl]

I don't know, maybe experience would have allowed me to move on instead of still finding 22 year old's attractive like some creepy old *******. I still have a preference for monogamy though and the idea of the hooking up with someone then bumping into them again seems horribly awkward. "Oh, hi, er.. how's it going?"

Ardour... it's not your fault you think im the hottest girl on the planet... just think, next year you'll find 23 year olds attractive lmao (okay okay im joking dont kill me) But eh I mean I think monogamy is good for a man later on, but there should be a period where he just throws his oats or whatever they say... People think its not fair, but at this point biologically everything is unfair about being a woman, what's one more thing. Also, rule 101, you pretend you was so drunk you dont even remember them.

 

[dan27]

I've been around...casual sex is ok if you're a heartless pig...lol
I'd rather CARE about my squeeze than not.
My twenties were another matter....but i digress.
Do what YOU will, it's not my business.
Have FUN 'til the pregnancy lights-up.....

 

[Claudia1794]

I don't know, maybe experience would have allowed me to move on instead of still finding 22 year old's attractive like some creepy old *******. I still have a preference for monogamy though and the idea of the hooking up with someone then bumping into them again seems horribly awkward. "Oh, hi, er.. how's it going

Still finding 22 year olds as attractive is not creepy. And if it is then I guess I'm creepy too. I don't care. I think it's cute to make them blush. And it should never be awkward to run into someone you've had sex with unless you can't remember their name or something. No, that has never happened but it would be awkward if it did.

 

[dan27]

 

[CenotaphGirl]

I've been around...casual sex is ok if you're a heartless pig...lol
I'd rather CARE about my squeeze than not.
My twenties were another matter....but i digress.
Do what YOU will, it's not my business.
Have FUN 'til the pregnancy lights-up.....

Speaking of pregnancy tests, I read a news article that says if a man finds a woman attractive, he would want to get her pregnant regardless if he knows her or not or has any connection to her… is this true? The comments said oh thats just common sense but I never knew this was a thing?!?! Ugh all this meaningless hook up culture is very confusing.

 

[NoxApex(N/A)]

Speaking of pregnancy tests, I read a news article that says if a man finds a woman attractive, he would want to get her pregnant regardless if he knows her or not or has any connection to her… is this true? The comments said oh thats just common sense but I never knew this was a thing?!?! Ugh all this meaningless hook up culture is very confusing.

Absolutely the fresia not.
Kids are expensive.
But if I didn't have to pay for the kid ...
Okay then yeah, probably.

 

[dan27]

I know a guy that claims to have shagged over 100 women !
So much for love...that is lust. Big difference !
What if they all got pregnant? xxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxx....

SEX is not a Sport...at least for some.
soddom and gomorrah comes to mind....


https://babynames.com/
or 20 zillion abortions..

dang.

 

[NoxApex(N/A)]

What if they all got pregnant?

Child support lookin like the electric bill of a football stadium.

 

[randomguy]

I know a guy that claims to have shagged over 100 women !

This month? it is only the 22nd though so still a wee bit of time to get some proper shagging in and those figures up.

 

[dan27]

This month? it is only the 22nd though so still a wee bit of time to get some proper shagging in and those figures up.

Dream on bud..

 

[user 188644]

Finished you kill me As some on here may know, I am always conducting in depth research on the modern landscape and conditions of dating. The hook up culture is damaging but I think the biggest issue right now is not hook up culture as only a few lucky or unlucky percentage are at it anyway lol The huge problem is porn addiction... and men (sorry to throw you guys under the bus) that are addicted to women who just... do not care for them.

Those kinds of men exist almost exclusively online and only affect women who need attention for their self esteem. The woman isn't attracted and her looks make her ego too big to realize she's just as much if not more of a loser than he is.

 

[CenotaphGirl]

Those kinds of men exist almost exclusively online and only affect women who need attention for their self esteem. The woman isn't attracted and her looks make her ego too big to realize she's just as much if not more of a loser than he is.

Well I meant more like, you date a guy for 5 mins and he tattoos your name all over him, not so much men liking pics online, although yes, that can be it's own drug. I watched an episode of black mirror on how addictive likes are and blah blah.

 

[NoxApex(N/A)]

Well I meant more like, you date a guy for 5 mins and he tattoos your name all over him, not so much men liking pics online, although yes, that can be it's own drug. I watched an episode of black mirror on how addictive likes are and blah blah.

That episode is sadly becoming a reality.

 

[user 188644]

Well I meant more like, you date a guy for 5 mins and he tattoos your name all over him, not so much men liking pics online, although yes, that can be it's own drug. I watched an episode of black mirror on how addictive likes are and blah blah.

So from your research this is more common than hookup culture? I just don't feel like a large enough percentage of those guys are ambitious enough to go on real dates.

 

[NoxApex(N/A)]

So from your research this is more common than hookup culture? I just don't feel like a large enough percentage of those guys are ambitious enough to go on real dates.

I don't think it's a lack of ambition, I think it's a lack of characteristic depth. These aren't people who think, these are mindless people who just feel and do whatever accordingly. Bad honeysuckle happens living life in that way. I don't know a single person who ever "felt" their way through life to happiness and victory. I DO however, know a metric shitload of tryhards and bullshitters.

 

[CenotaphGirl]

That episode is sadly becoming a reality.

Please... please like everything I post... I need it... it's like the only thing keeping me going at this point lol

So from your research this is more common than hookup culture? I just don't feel like a large enough percentage of those guys are ambitious enough to go on real dates.

I think the issue is the video was removed lol so now what I wrote doesn't make much sense, but there was a segment about Kim K's boyfriend getting her name tattoo'd and branded on him. My ex has my name on his chest, I know a lot of people who do this, I used to know only girls now I know sooo many guys.

My research has lead me to believe men want meaningless sex but in a bid to make sure we all understand there is no difference between men and women, men are now having to justify it, so they "fall in love" very quickly with women who see them as a joke. Not sure if that makes sense

 

[user 188644]

Please... please like everything I post... I need it... it's like the only thing keeping me going at this point lol



I think the issue is the video was removed lol so now what I wrote doesn't make much sense, but there was a segment about Kim K's boyfriend getting her name tattoo'd and branded on him. My ex has my name on his chest, I know a lot of people who do this, I used to know only girls now I know sooo many guys.

My research has lead me to believe men want meaningless sex but in a bid to make sure we all understand there is no difference between men and women, men are now having to justify it, so they "fall in love" very quickly with women who see them as a joke. Not sure if that makes sense

I think you're talking about guys with abandonment issues not guys who want meaningless sex. Yeah I mean I'm not trying to say these things don't happen. It happened to you. I understand why it's relevant to you, but I don't think it's nearly common enough to be like this is what's polluting the dating pool. I do think it's pretty rampant online though.

 

[CenotaphGirl]

I think you're talking about guys with abandonment issues not guys who want meaningless sex. Yeah I mean I'm not trying to say these things don't happen. It happened to you. I understand why it's relevant to you, but I don't think it's nearly common enough to be like this is what's polluting the dating pool. I do think it's pretty rampant online though.

No, I think all men want meaningless sex, especially the ones that say they don't lol.

However, what is polluting the dating pool may be geographical? I think the dating pool looks so different everywhere even city to city let alone country to country. For example, a large portion of American men complain to me that American women are just "impossible", so they hope to find a wife overseas. Looking for a wife overseas is not as popular here in the UK, but my research shows it's a huge movement in the US.

 

[randomguy]

Looking for a wife overseas is not as popular here in the UK

We have then all on our doorstep, French, Irish, Somalian, Latvian , Ghanaian, Italian, Moroccan and Indian that's just my street

 

[NoxApex(N/A)]

No, I think all men want meaningless sex, especially the ones that say they don't lol.

However, what is polluting the dating pool may be geographical? I think the dating pool looks so different everywhere even city to city let alone country to country. For example, a large portion of American men complain to me that American women are just "impossible", so they hope to find a wife overseas. Looking for a wife overseas is not as popular here in the UK, but my research shows it's a huge movement in the US.

I don't think anybody wants sex, I think everyone wants money and power, and sex just happens to be the most common public transportation to these things. Except for the inexperienced, who confuse sexual relations with emotional relations and cannot differentiate between the two (those are the people who usually get swallowed like fish in a shark pool in the dating pool).

But apparently I'm not supposed to just call that out like that.
The dating pool bores me because predictability bores me.
I have video games and a bi-weekly paycheck for predictability.