romie
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Ok my tuppence worth
Men have abused me, controlled me, ripped me off, made me feel worthless, made me want to not be here anymore, made me physically harm myself etc etc, i could go on.
This is life, i'm not the only one, many people here will have suffered far more greatly than me.
But how do i cope and not hate ALL men
I see the positives, I made bad choices, everything that has happened to me is not simply a producet of MEN but of my relationship with them therefore i am also to blame.
But I have friends who are in the most wonderful relationships with fabulous partners, my parents have been together since they where 16, i work with 100's of men and i see many good guys (and many bad) this all makes my heart happy. I am a realist, there is a huge amount of scum out there, people have too much these days and lack morals and values, but i keep the faith that one day my intelligent geek will come lol
The good people are out there, we just gotta find them and not give up...keep looking, have faith xxx
Men have abused me, controlled me, ripped me off, made me feel worthless, made me want to not be here anymore, made me physically harm myself etc etc, i could go on.
This is life, i'm not the only one, many people here will have suffered far more greatly than me.
But how do i cope and not hate ALL men
I see the positives, I made bad choices, everything that has happened to me is not simply a producet of MEN but of my relationship with them therefore i am also to blame.
But I have friends who are in the most wonderful relationships with fabulous partners, my parents have been together since they where 16, i work with 100's of men and i see many good guys (and many bad) this all makes my heart happy. I am a realist, there is a huge amount of scum out there, people have too much these days and lack morals and values, but i keep the faith that one day my intelligent geek will come lol
The good people are out there, we just gotta find them and not give up...keep looking, have faith xxx