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Yeah and I think sometimes males can be less forthcoming with their real feelings than females. So it may not be necessarily that a friend is not being "friendly" enough but maybe (like alot of us here) they just aren't showing what's really inside. A tough exterior can sometimes hide those true...

Drew, from reading Drew's Thoughts it seems that you do long for a type of love similar to what Flower is having. I don't think it really does make you sick but it just does at the moment, like ladyforsaken said.

LOL Drew! You're such a romantic... :) Seriously, good for you Romantic_Flower. I very much agree that life = love and love = life. You've found your love... and your life (or a good part of it.) You sound totally head over heels for this woman and that's great! Just make sure you're able to...

This. randomdude, it could just be that he doesn't do much and therefore doesn't have anything to invite you or anyone else to. You've been close with him for 2 years, so you would be able to explain his daily/weekly activities better than us. When you two do hang out, what sort of vibe do you...

Welcome aboard. You're young, attractive, talk well in social groups and people enjoy your company... I am stumped as to how you can be romantically lonely. There might be someone who can answer that for you, so good luck.

ReaderGuy and Girl B seem to have a good connection so it seems possible she might say yes to the date if he'd ask. Even if she's dating someone, it opens her thoughts upto it and she can decide what to do next, if anything. Yeah, it's easy to judge people without knowing anything about them...

I agree with 'theraab' that you should just go for it. Sometimes it's good to sit back and assess the scenario first... but other times it's good to just ask what is on your mind. It's a valid question that you want answered, so you have every right to ask Girl B whether she sees a possible...

Gutted, I miss some of the things that you do too and I'm sure alot of us miss similar things. I miss when everything was more carefree but I know that spending my days working hard in a job or on friendships, relationships, etc, is the right way to go. Carefree times can still come but I need...

Welcome... chat rooms aren't so bad if the people share likeminded interests. Yeah, they are pretty fast paced usualy and it can be hard to keep up! Been a while since I was in a chat room and like Moe's Tavern I was on the mostly when I was a teen. Well anyway, there's a chat room here so...

Welcome aboard and it does sound like you've had a hard life. This forum is all about positivity and accepting/understanding others who may not be 100% normal in relation to all of the others out there in the world. This is a great place to be with alot of nice people.

Welcome aboard! It's great to have a place like this where the people who may not be 100% normal in relation to everyone else can come and meet others in similar situations and make lots of friends.

Welcome aboard, Jim. Breakups happen all too often because relationships are a two-way street - both parties have to love/like eachother to stay in the relationship and unfortunately that can change after a while for one person. I'm sure you'll find someone else sooner or later. Talk to your...

Anyone seen that show Hoarders? I've only watched an episode or two but it makes me sad to see how sad they look. It really does seem like a burden having all of that junk around and it's taken a tole on their life. Hopefully they're able to be happier without it. :)

I can relate to changing some things that previous posters want to change. One other thing I'd like to change is my self-centredness. It's all about me. Superficial happiness (that's really deep sadness) is so unfulfilling, yet I crave it... I'd like to (and have slowly) started to devote...

If your real life close friends won't judge you for it, then they're probably the ones who would be able to understand. No, they most likely can't relate to it but if they're close friends they will understand and listen. It might be worth a shot to be in a situation where you and your closest...

It makes sense that you're wanting to make up for lost time, so to speak. At 24, you're right, most men and women have had sex numerous times and have had either a longterm relationship spanning years or a number of shorter ones. That's because most people are normal and it all kind of slots...

Welcome, lusker. I imagine many people are different at work and at home, aswell as out with friends. It seems that your work/home life merge has been positive to those around you, so that's good. Are you happy with your real self? I ask this because you said it's hard to imagine someone liking...

Firstly, you don't sound like a loser. You sound like someone who has a mental issue that many don't understand and they judge you by your appearance rather than what's deep down in your heart. Don't worry, you're not alone. Mental illness is one of the most misdiagnosed issues and unfortunately...

It bugs me when people treat me like the way you said LonelyGuy but it's just about trying to not let it bother you (which is easier said than done). Everyone has their reasons for acting the way they do and maybe alot of the arrogant type of people are just that way to hide their insecurity...

el Jay, I'm sorry for your loss. A friend, at any age, is very special. He sounds like a really great man and you were lucky to have shared that bond with him. When I was growing up I was sort of into a gaming group at high school and they kind of introduced me to internet cafes, which you may...