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    Dating websites

    If you're a man and you're not getting any replies on dating site, chances are your profile makes you come across as dull and boring. Most men put things like "I'm a nice guy" or "I like to play video games" or "I enjoy reading" in their profile. Things like that just scream boring and weak. If...
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    Can I find real friends in this country?

    You are correct for the most part. America is an extremely individualistic society, and those who don't put themselves first are quickly left behind. The word "friend" in USA doesn't really have as much meaning as it does in other societies. Think of friends more as allies. They'll help you if...
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    how to ask a girl out?

    The concept of "asking someone out" has become obsolete in modern society. Asking a girl out will probably just make you seem boring and weak. Just sit with her at lunch sometime (do NOT ask permission) and start talking to her. You'll be able to tell if she's interested or not.
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    Having Trouble With Western Women :/

    If you're 31 and and can't maintain a proper relationship then there's something seriously wrong with your personality or physical appearance. "Yourself" just isn't good enough. Let's talk about your looks a bit, assuming your avatar is an image of yourself. You appear to have a receding...
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    Why is it so hard for me?

    You sound like you have a very dull and boring personality. Try to fix that. It's imperative that all men develop a dominant and outgoing personality. This is absolutely right. Women do NOT want an honest nice guy. Honest nice guys are boring and a dime a dozen. They want someone exciting...
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    The best Christmas gift you've ever given...

    This Christmas I was walking down the street with a girl. She was bitching that I didn't get her a gift. I immediately stopped, pulled down my pants, and pissed our initials into the snow. I took a picture of it and sent it to her. She said it was the best gift she's ever gotten. What's the...
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    Is it possible?

    Not really. Trying to get a gf without having proper social connections is kind of like trying to fit a square peg into a circular hole. You can keep trying and hope for a different result every time, but in the end the result will always be the same. It just won't fit.
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    What do they want?

    Women want 4 things in a man: Financial Strength: This is self explanatory. Do you have money? Will you be able to buy her nice things? Will you be able to take her to nice places? Emotional Strength: Do you have a proper masculine personality? Are you dominant? Are you assertive? Physical...
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    Conforming to Dating/Relationship "Rules"

    These rules exist because women are valuable to men simply for being women because they can provide sex. On the other hand, men don't have the same inherent value because sex is easy for women to get. Therefore, men must provide something of value to women to be relationship material. Women...
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    no love = lifeless

    You sound very feminine and emotional, and this is probably why women are rejecting you. Remember that shyness and inexperience in men are seen as defects by women. Just like being blind or having a missing finger. Your top priority should be to conquer your shyness. Shyness in men is NOT a...
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    no love = lifeless

    You sound very feminine and emotional, and that's probably the reason why girls are rejecting you. Remember that shyness and inexperience are seen as defects in men. Just like having a missing limb or being blind. You might want to see a doctor about your shyness. Shyness is NOT a natural...
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    no love = lifeless

    You sound very feminine and emotional, and that's probably the reason why girls are rejecting you. Remember that shyness and inexperience are seen as defects in men. Just like having a missing limb or being blind. You might want to see a doctor about your shyness. Shyness is NOT a natural...
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    24 years old and never had a girlfriend

    You are right that confidence is key to success in today's world, and you seem to be on the right path to correcting yourself. Working out and taking martial arts lessons are great ways to improve both your physical posture and actual confidence. One thing that helped me improve my posture was...
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    Is getting to 24 with no female input whatsoever something to boast about?

    Of course it's nothing to brag about. If you were applying for a job, would you brag about your lack of experience? Most women will be very turned off by your lack of experience. You might want to think about hiring an escort so you can gain some experience. At least so you can learn how to kiss...
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    Is getting to 24 with no female input whatsoever something to boast about?

    It's certainly nothing to brag about it. Just like inexperience or gaps in your resume hurt you in the career world. Women will wonder what's wrong with you that you haven't had a relationship yet.
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    What do I do?

    Women see shyness as a sign of crippling weakness and insecurity, and rightfully so. Why would a woman want to deal with a shy man when she can have a man who takes the lead? Not to mention shyness is generally seen as creepy. Serial killers and rapists, both in real life and in fiction, mimic...
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    Real Life Dating

    Hi AJR, The thing to keep in mind is that women generally look for three things in a man: dominance, social status, and physical attractiveness. My guess is you aren't getting replies on online dating websites because your profile doesn't display these traits. Physical attractiveness is the...
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    Mandatory Reading for Men New to Relationships

    Why do so many betas harbor gauzy delusions about female sexual nature? Why are monogamously inclined traditionalists, manginas and white knighters so quick to sanctify women and paint their misbehavior in rose-colored hues while simultaneously offering unconditional support and shitlapping amen...
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    Do Pickup Artist manuals work?

    It's interesting that people who are against PUA are usually either women or men who have no problems in the dating game and are happily in relationships. Weak men develop shyness and insecurity around women because in the stone age, a weak man who made advances towards women would have had a...
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    Never had a relationship and never had sex

    You revealed the root of your problem in your post. Like a dog can smell fresh meat, women can smell insecurity and celibacy. And they don't like it. The good news is that as a man, even at 33, you still have years ahead of yourself to improve your attractiveness. My advice is to work on your...
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