ClosetGeek
Well-known member
I think I have adressed this topic elsewhere at least once.
I just wanted to shortly tell a story that happened to me yesterday. Similar stuff happen to me pretty often.
Yesterday I went downtown to get some stuff. I was walking home and on a busy street, I saw this guy I used to work with.
I was however never good buddies with this guy like I am with my other old co-workers.
He was married once, divorced, and acted like a total player towards women. I found him to be nauseating. The only conversation we exchanged was "hi" and "bye".
So when I saw him on the same street as I was walking on, I pretended to look at some shop windows and elsewhere. He is on my list of people whom I do not want to converse with.
Guess what happened?
He changed his route and came all the way to where I was and said with a smile "Hey you!". He went to tell about himself and his life and asked me if I wanted to have coffee with him. He is a very good looking guy but I find his attitude to be very disguisting.
I told him I can't at that moment and that I'll call him next week, which I probably won't.
A lot people insist that men or women do things to attract non-committal women or men. I think this is wrong. I think non-committal men and women, talk to many men or women, cause they are constantly looking for new people to manipulate.
I just wanted to shortly tell a story that happened to me yesterday. Similar stuff happen to me pretty often.
Yesterday I went downtown to get some stuff. I was walking home and on a busy street, I saw this guy I used to work with.
I was however never good buddies with this guy like I am with my other old co-workers.
He was married once, divorced, and acted like a total player towards women. I found him to be nauseating. The only conversation we exchanged was "hi" and "bye".
So when I saw him on the same street as I was walking on, I pretended to look at some shop windows and elsewhere. He is on my list of people whom I do not want to converse with.
Guess what happened?
He changed his route and came all the way to where I was and said with a smile "Hey you!". He went to tell about himself and his life and asked me if I wanted to have coffee with him. He is a very good looking guy but I find his attitude to be very disguisting.
I told him I can't at that moment and that I'll call him next week, which I probably won't.
A lot people insist that men or women do things to attract non-committal women or men. I think this is wrong. I think non-committal men and women, talk to many men or women, cause they are constantly looking for new people to manipulate.