ardour
Well known loser
Nobody wants to be the one to swallow their pride and admit interest if it can be avoided. Too bad really, women approaching as the norm would be safer for them and less stressful for everyone.
ardour said:Nobody wants to be the one to swallow their pride and admit interest if it can be avoided. Too bad really, women approaching as the norm would be safer for them and less stressful for everyone.
Case said:Just like gender roles in dating, I can't change what society expects from me. I can only change myself. It's like a board game. I can either play by the rules laid out before me, or I can reject these rules and avoid the game entirely. In society, if I reject social rules, I would have to deal with the difficulties of going against the grain.
EveWasFramed said:Mike413 said:So what guys on here secretly wish or expect(or not so secretly)that some ravishing beauty will spot you out of nowhere and just be dying to meet you and ask you out on a date.
What if she wasn't a "ravishing beauty?" Would you still want her to approach you? Just curious....
jasedude2002 said:Believe it or not, I would not wish it to happen. If it did, then general first thoughts would probably be how many guys has this girl slept with?
Believe it or not, I would not wish it to happen. If it did, then general first thoughts would probably be how many guys has this girl slept with?
Some_Bloke72 said:My first thought would probably be:
"Why does she want me? What could I possibly have to offer?"
Zed said:I think the question should be, do you wish women whom you find attractive would approach you first?
Unfortunately, all the women who've approached me have been pretty much the opposite of what I find attractive.
Men can have standards too?! Why wasn't I informed?!TheSkaFish said:Yea, I agree. That's the same as what happened to me. I've only had 3 women approach me, and none of them really had what I was looking for. Not only that, but they did not exceed the women I knew of that I would like to be in a relationship with. They did not knock them out of first place.
The Underdog said:Men can have standards too?! Why wasn't I informed?!TheSkaFish said:Yea, I agree. That's the same as what happened to me. I've only had 3 women approach me, and none of them really had what I was looking for. Not only that, but they did not exceed the women I knew of that I would like to be in a relationship with. They did not knock them out of first place.
So sarcasm isn't your strong point. You make a good point with self-growth and development. With as much time the average person wastes online, they could use it to find information that will ultimately better their selves and situations. What you said reminded me of a certain Cracked article. Hyberbole abounds, of course, but there is truth in its words.TheSkaFish said:You can have anything or anyone you want. Just gotta figure out the right way(s) to get whatever, or whomever, that might be.
EveWasFramed said:*rolls eyes*
The lot of you need to stop whining about women not approaching you. You make it clear you only want CERTAIN females to approach you. Well you can't have your cake and eat it too!
Triple Bogey said:I usual attractive women double my age.
EveWasFramed said:*rolls eyes*
The lot of you need to stop whining about women not approaching you. You make it clear you only want CERTAIN females to approach you. Well you can't have your cake and eat it too!
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